I'm still a virgin. I think I have 'baby fever'. I really want a kid but I don't want to ruin my life.
Most Helpful Guy
Imagine there's a marshmallow on a table. It looks yummy. There is a label on the marshmallow saying "death marshmallow". You reach for the soft, delicious treat- eager to experience it's glory. But wait! Remember the label? You want the marshmallow but there are consequences, which outweigh the marshmallow itself.
It's like that.
And to your other question. Fuck no, babies are disgusting.2
Most Helpful Girl
I thik that you just want to feel responsible, and the "mother" in you is simply awakened! I don't really recommend getting pregnant at your age.
Instead, try babysitting, with having a child come a lot of responsabilities, more than you can probably imagine, it's more than just cuddling, feeding and changing diapers. It's also raising a real human, right now, you aren't even mentally develloped yet. So how can you raise a baby if you don't have the experiences of adulthood? And, having a child costs lots of money, you have to have a steady income, a house,... A lot of grown-ups even underestimate how much your life changes when you get a baby!
I do get these feelings sometimes, it's just part of female puberty, hormones and stuff. Just stick to babysitting for a while :) It will satisfy your babyneeds!1