My boyfriend is in the marine corps and I am terrified of him getting deployed.
Most Helpful Guy
Well apart from the fact that I'm very much anti-military and I couldn't possibly have a girlfriend who is pro-miitary for political reasons, I also would find it extremely hard to deal with the fear of her getting deployed. I wouldn't be scared about the cheating aspect (I told my girlfriend that she's allowed to have sex with other guys) but I would definitely be extremely scared of her getting severely injured or even killed. The mere thought gives me goosebumps. I might be a little bit of a girl in this but I already get worried when my girlfriend goes on vacation on her own. Sometimes I even worry about her when she does every day life stuff like riding her bike to the train station because she could hypothetically get hit by a car. I just love my girlfriend so incredibly much. I think if she died I couldn't live anymore either. She's the one who gives me purpose in life. So no, I don't think I could handle the idea of her getting deployed. Luckily, I live in a country where military service is only mandatory for men and that hasn't participated in or directly experienced any hostile military conflicts since the Napoleonic war in 1798.0
Most Helpful Girl
Only and if only we were madly in love, he was loyal, and had never done me wrong.0