Before i hated the way i looked, it took my years to realise just because i was different it didn't mean i was unattractive, and im at a point where i acccept that i look the way i look. But my confidence in myself has been a bit rocky, and i can go from "im really cute" to "i look terrible, why does this guy like me?"..
im just moved, just made new friends and being very social, and im having a good time. But i feel kinda ignored by the male gender.. im not even sure why, because its not like i made an effort and talk to guys that aren't guys in my class.
The only guys that has shown any form of attraction towards me (that i have noticed) are 40-year old men on the street and one of my guy friends. My dilemma is "should i just realise im not attractive enough and move on or build up my self esteem and see how things go".. Im really considering just trying accpet the fact im not hot or cute or whatever and i should stop trying or beliving i can get a boyfriend. But i keep shifting between state of mind, so any advice on how to stick to one mind set?
Most Helpful Guy
Could you.. elaborate on why you find yourself unattractive?
Thing is, most people normally take too harsh a view on themselves. Not everyone can be supermodel hot, but you're probably just fine as it is. Acne will clear up, weight can be lost, teeth can be fixed. Confidence and a positive attitude though, will get you far.
Most Helpful Girl
You will have ups and downs about your appearance. Everyone does. Just focus on what you are accomplishing and about being a good person. Most people will tell you that personality trumps looks by far. And you don't seem to have any mental or physical disabilities. So consider yourself lucky :) you're just fine.
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