How to build confidence?

I'm afraid I'm missing out on some of the best things in life. At work I'm very outgoing, and people find it very hard to believe that I'm really this quiet shy guy who is afraid to talk to anybody who might be interested in a relationship. What should I do to repair this small aspect of my life. Sometimes people think I'm stuck up when I say no thanks to after work drinks or parties, when the truth of the question is I'm scared and afraid to leave my area of comfort.


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  • The only thing you have to fear is fear itself.

    Just let go of that fear, man. If you want to go out for drinks, do it. You have literally nothing (of any real importance) to lose, and potentially much to gain.

    So go for it. Good luck. :)