so im currently talking to this guy on a dating app, very short described he looks like that sweet, nerdy guy who always get friendzoned lol.
He obviously find me attractive, and he's isn't unattractive, but looks aren't everything, and if he asks me out im going to go.. But im a bit uncomfortable with the idea that he find me more attractive then i find him.. I feel like there won't be a equal balance between us, in the past that has lead me to not make an effort..
So whats your idea about guys like this? is it a bad idea?
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This might sound cruel, but a study showed that most lasting relationships had partners who were of equal attraction.
The whole "friendzoned" thing kinda bugs me. Guys are a bit more obsessive over girls than girls over guys. A lot of us feel like we HAVE to have a girlfriend (preferably a good looking one) to be whole. As a result, we can easily develop one-way feelings for an attractive girl who just sees us as a friend.
"Friendzoned"? What's the matter about someone not wanting you romantically? Guys who use that word tend to seek a girl for happiness, rather than focusing on their own lives. You shouldn't need a relationship to make you happy, and people who think they do still need to mature a bit. I used to be that way, and I'm a much better person now that I'm not.
Give him a shot if you think he's worth it. But keep in mind, he's probably MUCH more hopeful about your meeting than you are.0