i can feel good about things one day then another feel depressed. I keep worrying about everything and it's all getting on top of me, it's just ugh, hard. I like what I see in the mirror most of the time yet I still think I'm fat and unattractive, how do I get over that? I have zero confidence in myself and it's horrible
Most Helpful Guy
I go with what @ Stacyzee says.
There isn't one post where you are and that I haven't been going on and on about how beautiful you are ;) <3 and THAT isn't just flattery young lady :)
It is an unfortunate thing that most beautiful people look at themselves with disdain. Beauty again is something that lies in the eyes of the beholder. However, there is something known as beauty that isn't dependent on a beholder and you are just that.
This is the 2nd question where I notice that you are talking about being fat. Do you remember the picture I sent you on your last such question? ;) :D It's a fact and not a joke.
Well I'm sure that you are confident about your looks reason being which you keep posting your face pics ;) :D <3 (so beautiful) but you sure are seriously in doubt about your body aka being fat. And again this is the 2nd time I'm telling you that a full profile pic will help settle that :)
I'm sure you are attractive on the whole i. e. by face, body, mind and heart :)1
Most Helpful Girl
As someone that has observed your posts. I see that you constantly seek validation from others by constantly posting in the "How do I look?" section.
The fact of the matter is, people can tell you that you're beautiful over 100 times but you'll never believe it.
The insecurity issues are something that you have to fix on your own.
No one can help you with it.
The "flaw" that you mention can be fixed.
If are overweight... why not try living a healthier life style?
-Make the right choices when it comes to food
-Eat smaller portions
When you shed the extra weight, you will feel better.
I'm positive the attention that you get online, isn't the same as in real life.
If it were... you wouldn't feel the need to seek validation.
I think you are beautiful !
But you have to believe it.
Work on yourself! emotionally and physically.
We all could be a better version of ourselves no matter how we appear to others!
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