so this guy likes me, or at least i think, and when im drunk or broke i like to take advantage of it. Long story short when he's drunk he buys me beer WITHOUT me even asking for it, he will insist of buying it to me, and most of the time i'll say yes. I'll hint to the fact that im thirsty and he will either buy me a beer or let me have most of his and i know that there is alcohol and him involved i can get a free nights out basically.
But the things is that i never invite myself, i never message him first and i never ask for anything, but i know that by batting my eyelashes and just being in the same bar as him i can get a lot of things from this guy. But the again, he normally insists or asks several times, so a part of him wants to give me things.
So would you say im using him in any way?
- You're using himVote A
- You're not using himVote B
Most Helpful Guy
You are shamelessly using him. He's hoping for more and sadly he thinks he has little more to offer you than drinks etc. You are taking advantage of this and you think it's funny. Which makes you an ass. You deserve to fall in love with a guy and have him play on that for sex and sandwiches and then toss you aside like trash when he gets tired of you, just like you will do to this guy inevitably. Your a pretty low person.1
Most Helpful Girl
Are you that broke that you can't afford your own drinks?
Did you really have to ask this question.
Of course, you're taking advantage of him.
He's like a walking atm.
He probably likes and enjoys your company and thinks that's a way to win your over.
Sadly, he doesn't realize you probably have no interest in him what so ever.
He is indeed naïve.
He'll learn eventually that being "too nice" gets him no where.1
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