I have night school for one class and i noticed this girl's car had a dead battery as it would not start and was weak. She was super cute and i though this would be a good time to practice "talking to girls". So i told her if she wanted help, she said no. i told her do you have anyone coming? she said no. So then i conviced her to help.
I won't get in detail but its like she though i was going to steal her car... she was really protective and looked scared. I'am not an indimidating person. While the car was charging i told her what to do and tried to small talk but nothing really worked :(
I feel like i suck talking to girls but at the same time she was really tense... why was she this tense?
Most Helpful Girl
Don't judge yourself based on this experience. Some girls will act like that in such situation even if you were the best talker and the sweetest person. She was already nervous because it was at night and the car did not start. A random guy approached, but it is night, and she does not know what are his intentions.
It is sad because the bad stories girls hear come out on top of the good things about some guys who might be the majority.
It was nice of you that you helped her. This will fix this image and make her learn that not all men are like that. However, don't assume you are not good with talking with girls based on that. At least, this time, you had the courage to go talk to her and help her. Now, try yourself in better scenarios.1
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Most Helpful Guy
Yes, approaching a cute girl at night when you are the only one around is a super great time to practice "talking to girls", as you so eloquently put in quotation marks.
She was just nervous because male + alone + night = rape in the mind of a 21st century girl.
Don't feel bad about your talking skills. If you see her again (IN THE DAYTIME) then maybe say hi to her or something.2