I noticed that many women would feel completely distraught. If so why?
How would you feel if your SO turned gay?
What Girls Said 8
Because people don't just turn gay - it'd mean he's been gay all along and our whole relationship was a lie.2
It's okay, we'd just have to end the relationship obviously since that means he's only into dudes.0
Pretty upset because it means he won't want to be with me.0
I'm not sure if I'd be distraught from the rejection or if him being gay would have an additional bearing.0
"turn?" as far as I know, I don't think people just suddenly "become" gay..1
You can't turn gay.0
What Guys Said 7
We'll, I'd hate to lose her, but I also understand some people need to try each side of the fence to know what they want and like. I would probably take a break and let her explore this side and if she wanted me back, no problem.0
I'd think she was gay already before she met me or she was at least curious about girls. It doesn't happen suddenly in my opinion.0
You don't just turn gay. But if my girlfriend/wife came out as a lesbian, I would feel so heartbroken.0
That sounds messed up. I would dump her and I will not have any interest in being friends.
But I don't need to worry about that because I do not date girls who are confused of their sexualities nor ones who just want to experiment with me.0
So she's bi?
Me: "Three way or nah?"0
I'd probably feel hurt and quite annoyed at her for leading me on like that.0
You can't turn gay. You either are or aren't.0