NOT JUST In romantic relationships but life in general..
Most Helpful Guy
Someone who doesn't take responsibility for their actions or thinks that the world is out to get them. I would also say it's someone who's looking for sympathy or quick fame.0
Most Helpful Girl
They are manipulators, or more formally "professional victims."
They manipulate the situation into seeming like they are being perpetrated in order to solicit sympathy from others. They also use this tactic in order to justify their actions for the sake of their situation (being the victim)1