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I honestly don't know I guess it comes down to choices and a person facing their own desires vs that of your partners, communication also plays a vital part in this. I can't speak for others, but I have no desire to be involved in anything other then a monogamy relationship, this is one of the first things I discuss with and tell a gal before I start anything with her. So I need to know if she has a problem with that or if she wants something else because I won't force her to adhere to what I want if she wants something other then what I want.
Basically it all comes down to communication and choices it's the key to everything, the key to avoiding a potentially disastrous relationship down the line or the key to having a long loving one with your partner. And in this day and age I think it is a fairy good idea to be pretty up front about what you want and were you would like things to go and your do (s) and don't (s).0