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No. No offense but I think you should get out of MissNowhere's ass and let her navigate through her experience as her own woman. I say this because I have been in MissNowhere's shoes; young and in love with someone on the other side of the planet. It may look all cute and intriguing from the outside in but there are various complex factors when you are a very young woman who lacks financial independence, a certain level of life experience, and would have to uproot life as you know it as well as abandon or majorly shift collegiate and career goals to chase a romance. Despite how engaging and adorable this romance may seem right now, in actual reality she has barely explored adulthood and solidified her identity as a woman. Some relationships sincerely are not meant to be no matter how magnetic they are or how sturdy they seem so it could be a disaster for an 18 year old to leave her home and live with a 28-ish year old man in America with no college degree, no financial independence, no family (?)/no friends/no support system. Connections fade away, they become smothered, people outgrow relationships and bonds: it's one massive risk that she most likely lacks the financial, emotional, and mental resources to handle if things don't work out.
I also don't think it's appropriate to arrange the fate of someone else like that. What may be best for her long term development may not be this relationship so I wouldn't feel comfortable helping her "buy a place" in a foreign country. As for you @Asker, it's really not healthy to idolize or live vicariously through other's relationships... :/ just sayin...3