Like... if you're feeling sad, cry level sad, are you able to suppress the tears if need be or do they break through no matter what?
learned today as I was driving to work that I am not, despite what I had previously thought, in control of my tears.
My tears have made me their little bitch quite
often this past week.
Most Helpful Guy
About 70% in control but I would be lying if I didn't say that tears didn't get the better of me on occasions or if I have my stupid hat on turn to alcohol. First things first, ain't nothing wrong with a good cry, some things aren't meant to be kept in. Tears to me are the final (excuse the French) Fuck it, I had enough shit, I will have a good cry then when I feel better think about how I can approach the situation that is making me cry. Often they can be things that can't be controlled if that, how can I adapt to make things better for myself or if applicable those I care about. If you think you have control over it , what can I do to make things better for myself or if applicable those I care about,
Tears to me are a dam releasing some water pressure - Your emotions are bottling up threatening to overwhelm you so you need a couple minutes to yourself, a good cry then you can think on. Tears are not there to make you their little bitch, they are there to remind you that you are a normal person not a superheroine who doesn't cry. Everybody cries/ everybody hurts just some people do it without tears.
Whatever is happening to you I hope it eases for you and gets better, best wishes.1
Most Helpful Girl
Oh, God, no. I'm constantly about to burst into tears. The slightest thing could set me off. Like last night, the boyfriend knew that I was really hoping he'd think I looked good in a new dress I bought for a party coming up so when we went to bed, he told me that I'd looked pretty earlier in the dress and I was suddenly sobbing on him. So that was interesting :P My tears are pretty much always ready to flow and there's nothing I can do to stop them, I'm a baby.0