A couple years ago when I was in my first year of college, I slept with my brother's then girlfriend while drunk. She broke up the following month but never told him the real reason.
Anyway he was kind of devastated for weeks about the break-up and coming to me for comfort but nope he never found out it was me who played a role in that. I've been dealing with this guilt for the longest but decided not to ever tell him.
Most Helpful Girl
You're a massive asshole for what you did, but in the long run you kinda did your brother a favour since his ex turned out to be a slag.
If you tell him, you'll technically "restore the balance" and all that shit, but is it really for your brother's benefit or to just clear your own conscience?1
Most Helpful Guy
Some secrets should stay kept secret and never revealed. Your brother will get over the break up and it won't be relevant again. But you can never say it because if he finds out sometime in the future he will be mad and will cause a problem in your relationship with him0