It doesn't make sense to me. Are people still depending on the style of clothing and kind of car you have to see if you're worth their time? My very first car was a 99' chevy blazer and I drove that for 9 years. I hardly was looked at or noticed by any male or female. Later, I then upgraded to a sports car. I got way more looks than I did in my blazer from both guys and girls. I eventually got rid of that car, and now I have a heavily modified Ford (I said Ford so you should know the kind of car it is without me saying) and I cannot tell you how many women notice me and smile more than ever. And as you would expect, your typical guys also pull up beside me and instigate a race.
So the question is, why is it that cars are used to identify what kind of people you attract? You could be the nicest person ever in a pos car, but you wouldn't even be looked at twice if it wasn't something luxery or high-end performance. It absolutely disgusts me how today's world works.
Any thoughts on this?
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the kind of car a person drives doesn't pop up in my head a reason to date or not date a person. i usually don't come across people i want to date while driving, it's not like i'm checking out everyone on the highway.
i think maybe people use cars as a way to gauge someone's ability to earn and save money, which can hint at other traits like diligence, ambition, etc. but a car is hardly an infallible indicator of those traits. some of the douchiest dudes i've come across have had the "nicest" cars, whereas some of the best guys i've known have not even had cars lol.
honestly, people will have their preferences. you cannot control what others like. but you can decide what you like, how you choose to present yourself. if you have a problem with the kinds of girls who judge guys based on the kind of car they drive, then don't go for those girls. there's so many women out there, to get hung up on a small subset is silly.1
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