What does it mean to be a hot mess?

A female friend of mine called me a hot mess. we have had sex before. im not sure what she meant by that.


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  • I'd usually refer to one as a hot girl who was a mess in the sense , mean her overall life , emotions , relationships etc those sort of things but she was still hot and you'd find her very attractive

  • A hot mess is a man or woman whose appearance is in disarray such as a woman going out with frizzy unbrushed hair, ripped jeans and a creased t-shirt but who still looks hot.

    • yeah but what does it mean to you i know what the dictionary says.

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    • because im stupid

    • Take what the definition of the phrase 'hot mess' is and that's what your friend meant.