He said he wouldn't. You know what, in me. But, I still make him wear one. I never did that with my exes (who were black).
Most Helpful Guy
Even if is is "racist" it doesn't matter. You are not violating his civil rights. You have the right to decide who you want to wear a condom or not based on any criteria that you want to base it on. It doesn't matter what your reason for that is. It is 100% up to you to insist on a guy wearing one or not. Just like it is his decision if he is okay remaining in that relationship or not.
People are trying to move the issue of racism beyond civil rights and into peoples sex lives, and I don't agree with that. Who a person sleeps with, or chooses to have children with isn't anybodies concern besides the two people in that relationship.2
Most Helpful Girl
You should especially wear a condom with white guys. Historically they like gave diseases to the world so, thats not an opinion... Id just be extra careful I think their immune systems are weaker too and because of how black women are treated poorly because of them, I think on a subconcious level they are more likely to screw us over.
Dont do it with them especially without a condom, our guys can have something too but be careful, just especially. I dont really trust them especially given their track record... but be careful with everyone.4
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