How to Come to terms that im a Virgin and how not to be embarassed by it? Peoples reaction makes me feel worse about it when they either look shocked or what not..
I get it, no decent guy wants me, no need to rub it in my face...
Most Helpful Guy
Hey, I'm almost 26 and never kissed a girl or had a real close hug. The furthest I got was a simple goodbye hug so I don't know if that even counts. And clearly I am not embarrassed about it. It doesn't make me feel upset or that I'm some loser. Believe it or not I actually like admitting it to see the reactions I get.
Anyway, there is no need to feel bad about being 18-24 and a virgin. Why? Because it's best to have your first time and all your future times with the correct man. There is no need to rush and lose it. Find the correct man for you first. If you find the right guy then you will feel more comfortable and happy about doing it. The more comfortable you are the better it will be. Ignore the negative things people say to or about you for being a virgin at 18-24. You know that you want your first time to be with the man you love so you are looking for him. And that's the right thing to do.1
Most Helpful Girl
It's not embarrassing and anyone who makes you feel like shit for being a virgin does not deserve to be in your life. It's not a race to have sex so you can be "normal." A lot of people in your age group are still virgins.
And hold up. There are *plenty* of decent guys who will want you. You're just not looking in the right places. You might want to try becoming friends with a bunch of dudes first instead of just trying to find a boyfriend. That way, you know who is a dirtbag and who is a good guy.0
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