Right now I'm a young 20 year old woman. But even before I turned 20 I dreaded it and felt old and just very unhappy. I liked being a young goofy teen. I mean I'm still that way now but now it's like I have to mature up and be all lady like and soon i have to worry about marriage and kids and other responsibilities like jobs and bills/taxes. I don't know I'm scared and now I'm like the super hot lady (not to sound vain) and all the boys even girls stare at me and it makes me sad that when I near late 20s and 30 s and 40s it's all gonna be gone and no one will look at me anymore. I'm so sad. I only wish there was a way to stop it. Does anyone else ever feel this way?
Most Helpful Guy
We all age.. it is nothing to be worried about.. the thing is to always feel the age that you want to feel and be happy.. live every day to the fullest.. things happen to people everyday.. one minute here and the next one not.. things do work out much better if you do not worry about things like age.. lots of other stuff to worry about.. like the state of this planet for example and the governments that do not want to do anything to fix it.. that may cost them the big bucks they make now.
All the way from oil that nets them huge dollars to the big corporations, that will pay extra not to have to abide by any rules.. the taxes they then make from them all the way to the added taxes for the people, and that one hurt's a lot because most people in this world are just hanging on day to day.. do the governments care about any of this.. or try to improve things.. Nope.. those things are more important to worry about then the age thingy.. take care now0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm going through the same thing. I'll be 24 this year. I feel bad because I feel like I didn't really make the most of my teen years & early 20's. Also the looks thing.
The advice I could give you is that from what I heard, it's actually typical for some women to feel depressed around this age range. But you have to remember that you'll still be young into your 30's. & you don't have to get married or have kids until YOU'RE ready. Don't listen to other people just because everyone else is settling down at a certain age. They've lived a different life from you & what works for them might not work for you.
Yeah, you'll have some unavoidable responsibilities but you can live life regardless. Also, you'll still look great into your older years as long as you take care of yourself & put an emphasis on actually looking good.1