My group member verbally attacked me. It was humiliating, it was personal and I was left in tears.
I don't know what to do. I feel terrible no one has ever spoken to me like that.
I was considering going to the prof but he is away.
I dont' even know if there is someone you can complain to for harassment in University. There is an upcoming meeting and it makes me sick to my stomach that I have to be in the same room as that monster.
But I also know if I don't go he has something t say, (she didn't come for our meeting).
What should I do? The only other option is to take someone with me but I don't have any real friends who I can take with me.
Most Helpful Guy
being yelled at is not always harassment. Did they do it just to be mean? Were they having a bad day and just lost it on you, and really didn't mean it? Were you NOT doing your share of the work, and they had a legitimate complaint?
Your tears do not make it harassment. And intent or desire to be cruel, on their part, for no reason other than to humiliate you, makes it harassment.
Just because no one has ever spoken to you like that before does not mean it might not have been called for.
I AM NOT SAYING you deserved it. I have no idea what was said, in what context, or if it was true. All I am doing is asking YOU to be honest about what happened, before you decide to look for a way to try to get someone in trouble.0
Most Helpful Girl
Get bigger balls is what you should do3