My boyfriend has been down lately with not being able to find a job etc and has not wanted to do anything with me or any of our friends. It sucks that I have not seen him in awhile because I miss him. Usually when I ask him he says he has been having a bad week etc and always apologizes for sucking etc. Im not going to get mad at that, but the past 2 weekends he has been with family. Yes 2 weeks ago was Easter ok, last weekend he went out to eat with his family. Our friend invited us to the casino he said no because of money and he sucks and then went to dinner with them and now tonight I asked what he was doing, I had class so would not see him anyway he said he was hanging out with his cousin. Yes, they are his family and I get sometimes you need your family around in these times but I am his girlfriend and miss him etc. Since he is feeling this way could he possibly be feeling like a loser or whatever since he apologizes etc. Should I be mad or no? One side of me says yes and the other says no. I bought him an Easter Present to a baseball game and have not yet even givem it to him since I haven't seen him. I wanted tod o something to get his mind off things. So should I be mad or what? Am I making a big deal out of this?
Should I be mad at him or no?
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Giving him the gift could be a start
while I agree that you are his girlfriend and he shouldn't be selfish and forget you
He is going through a rough time now and he could use support. Some people are particular about where they get their support and tend to lean more to family but that doesn't mean he doesn't love or trust you.
Be patient and wait on him. He will talk when he is ready. Mean time, you could help him but keeping an ear out, see if you hear of any job vacancies even the temporary ones. I am lucky I have good friends who keep an ear out for me.0
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No because it's his family, family is family. Maybe he just wants some space to discuss these matters with his family and he doesn't want other people, for instance, his friends to know all about this situation. I'm sure he doesn't have any problems with you. Just support him and help him out.0
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