My boyfriend told me I was a fuck up. Because I lost my debit card in my scrubs. I'm always doing careless things. But I feel like being called a fuck up means I'm a loser and he says he hates that About me, that I'm careless. So based off that I'm thinking he hates me but I'm so confused.
Most Helpful Guy
Ok, you may have been careless but I think he is making a big issue out of this. You can easily block that card and problem is solved.
He was not wrong to say that it was careless of you to lose your debit card, but he could have been nice about it while he told you that.
No, just because you lost one debit card, doesn't mean you are a loser.1
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should tell him how you feel. I mean to call someone something can be a joke or just a thing to some people and he may not entirely know how it gets to you. But I don't think it's nice or acceptable to call you a "fuck up". To say "well you're a silly one" is one thing but that? No. I don't like that and it leaves negative thoughts in your mind.0