If so, how?
Can you give specific examples of what you have seen?
Most Helpful Girl
I'm one of them.
Most of my life I took care of others served my family, cooked, cleaned, and made sure everyone was fine.
Went to school and helped my friends with homework, assignments, problems, gave them company.
Overtime people begin to realize that you are a kind person who doesn't say no and then begin to take advantage of that.
My friend would make me give her rides everywhere, help her deal with her sociopathic boyfriend.
Another i would help with projects.
The thing is kind people need to learn to put their foot down so that other people won't take advantage of them. Problem is we have such good hearts and we are very forgiving and open our hearts to everyone.
We need to put up walls until the coast is clear.1
Most Helpful Guy
I think I'm kind but seriously I've never been taken advantage of. People who I help gives me something back in return generally. Some worth more than, I don't ask in return okie. It's all voluntary. Maybe because they're also kind lol.
I imagine kind people can get advantage of.. The too kind perhaps. All it takes is an opportunistic person who use intimidation to prey on them or if they meet scumbg steve el oh el