My 2 1/2 yr old has came to me telling me that her nana makes me play with her boobies under her bra. My husband is telling me that just because I was sexually abused as a child doesn't mean that his mom is touching our child. He says that kids talk about things like this, they're pretending. I don't buy that at all. I know children at 2 years of age don't think such things if not exposed to them. I stay at home with her all day she watches nick jr and dysney jr. I watch I love Lucy which isn't innaproprate. What do you think about this? I think my daughter speaks the truth. She told me it upsets her and makes her sad. I've been extremely upset over this and am not backing down. My child's safety is my concern. Not my husband's mother's feelings or pretend feelings. Any advice would help me please.
Most Helpful Guy
This is a very difficult issue. If you remember that playschool case in California several years ago, then you know how easily children's statements can be misinterpreted and become exaggerated. I suggest you take your child to a professional and have the question investigated by a neutral professionalobserver, which you, due to your history, are not.0
Most Helpful Girl
Ummmmm.. ALL my children were breastfeeders so yeah they had the weird boobs thing for awhile (trying to pull down shirts, smacking at them).. BUT SHE NEEDS TO BE PUT IN HER PLACE. I WOULD ADVISE ALL 1 ON 1 TIME TO STOP IMMEDIATELY... I don't know your situation but like stated above breastfeeders it's common when your Weaning. 2 outta my 3 did TRY to mess with other people's boobs OF COURSE NORMAL PEOPLE STOP IT.. NEVER EVER OK UNDER SHIRT EVER... Also did your daughter say bra? Is that a word you commonly used around her? My 3-4 yr old only knows them by boobies shirt her words I never gave her a word I didn't need her going around talking about it like when she learned she had a vagina lol I would suggest bringing it up to Grandparent if not have the police check it out for you. I personally find it not only disgusting but very sick if grandparent (OR ANY ONE NOT BREASTFFEDING) allows this. If she is forcing her I will not put on here what I REALLY think should happen to her but we will go with JAIL...0