Onision made a video ("Women and Low Self Esteem") that said the following:
"This video is for all the women out there with a low self-esteem… don’t be cray cray, you were born a woman, which means by default you’re desirable to an endless list of men. You know you have the power, so own it.”]
... You possess a precious gift that /no man/ can obtain without someone like you. Regardless of whether or not you know it, you are desired, you are wanted, you are /begged for/. Especially when it comes to guys going through puberty, every night in their bed, praying for someone to fall from the sky. Someone like you...
“Men pay /ridiculous/ amounts of money just to see people like you doing gross, perverted things. If you are a woman, you are born in control, whether you know it or not. Men stare at you, men think about you, men want you.
... it’s not you who should be worried about being undesirable, it’s the entire male population! We ask /you/ on dates, we ask /you/ to marry us, we pay for /your/ meals, we hold the door open for /you/... We cater to [women] /all the time/. We’re basically their servants.
Women are truly the rulers of this Earth. All you gotta do is take care of yourself and find yourself your own man servant... I’d bet that there’d be a line waiting for you."
I was wondering if it is true that men yearn for women so much more than the other way around. So. How much do you yearn for the opposite gender?
- not at all8%(3)15%(13)Vote19%(10)
- I can take it or leave it19%(7)20%(18)Vote21%(11)
- I yearn somewhat19%(7)22%(20)Vote25%(13)
- I yearn considerably32%(12)21%(19)Vote13%(7)
- I yearn so much, it's almost agonizing19%(7)19%(17)Vote19%(10)
- I actively wish to avoid attention and contact of the other gender3%(1)3%(2)Vote3%(1)
Most Helpful Guy
most guys are slaves to their hormones, their 'lower, more primal' brains that make us need you, to reproduce, to continue the species.
The 'higher, intelligent mind' developed, in many of us, and we can control it, to some degree.
I think it is amusing when some women say that guys take advantage of them.
How about a guy, going into s strip club, with $200 in cash, and he leaves, a few hours later, never actually had sex, but has no money left? Who was really in control, there? Him, or the dancer (topless or not, depending on the local laws)?
Women can be the most AMAZING companions, friends, and lovers, but you can also abuse the power that you naturally have, over guys.
It's a give and take thing. Neither gender is superior, or has it better. We both have our weaknesses, our vices! Men just love attractive women, and women, well, some of you like really bad guys, and make bad choices, like a guy going to a 'club' and leaving all that money. . .0
Most Helpful Girl
Of course I like it.
The only person who I especially want it from is my boyfriend, obviously.
But I do enjoy attention from strangers. I mean, everything I do is about attention. The way I look, the way I walk, the way I hold myself, the way I speak to others, keeping myself in shape, etc. I enjoy being noticed.0