Are you worried they might be abusive or just too violent in other ways?
Or do you like it if your partner can defend themselves and possibly you?
Most Helpful Girl
TOTAL ADMIRATION + AWE x 1000000000000 :)2
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For women, I think I'd like it provided that they have the mental and emotional discipline to save it for truly bad situations and the ring (if applicable).
That kind of tougher mental resolve, provided it accompanies their training, can make them individuals capable of avoiding conflicts and deescalating situations. So they might be able to kick my ass but if they are as mentally and emotionally strong as they are physically strong, there would be few reasons to ever get to that point.1