Straight A student kind of smart?
I mean for some reason I can't help but notice that he comes from a humble background. Doesn't mean I look down on him I just notice it.
He hates me or he's indifferent but I wonder if it's because of the money thing.
Forgetting him for one second, is it normal for people to feel somewhat reserved around rich people? I feel it too. Like I won't put up a picture of myself if I feel I don't look 'rich' even if I want to
Don't know how to fix it on this site
Most Helpful Guy
For me it's not really intimidation. I think rich/middle class often look down on people of lower social class, and I think some especially tend to be very status oriented. The majority of men don't give a shit whether a girl works or not whereas women tend to prefer a man with a good career. So that's what it is, I assume that she'll judge me as being below her, which of course I don't believe but the fact that she'd think that way is off-putting. Perhaps it's a false assumption a lot of the time, but I've had some experiences where I've had people talk shit about me being low class for example her parents when I've dated middle class girls being a working class guy myself. I get paid well now but when I was poor I had girls ask me stuff like what car I drove and because it was just a cheap little VW polo they weren't interested which I thought was strange. Stuff like that.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm wondering this as well. I just started talking to a guy who is 25 and has hardly much to his name since he's in a band and came from a poorer background. I'm middle class, but I am spoiled.. Kinda daddy's princess I guess.. But I'm 21 and still go to school.. So yes I live with my parents still and don't work. But I don't give off any negative feelings towards those who have less money or those who have more money. I see a person as a person. However, I am cautious with this guy because I sense that he and his friends don't like me because they think I'm from a different kind of existence of which I was handed things to me and may not understand life as they do or something, but that is far from the truth. I don't know what to do about it though. I can see why it would be kinda frustrating.0