As stated above, how do yo feel if a girl would ask you out?
Or when she asked you out?
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This has only happened a handful of times in my life and my response went from "Ugh!" to "Wow!".
First time was when I was at a skating rink. It was unusual in that they had a half-pipe inside the skating rink. I liked to ride the half-pipe on the skateboard and do airs and kind of show off. Some girls would show up and watch sometimes (always a good motivator).
One of the girls who was watching me a lot did a strange thing where she came up to me and told me a girl really wants to ask me out. I asked who and she asked me to follow her to a corner in the skating rink where no one was around. So she grabbed my hand kind of forcefully and lead me there and was like, "Tada! It's me!" (what a strange way).
Problem is that I wasn't very attracted to her. She was quite chubby and maybe not exactly my type (though in my youth my idea of "type" was dumb, as it was based on inexperience and just idolizing images and girls I was crushing on). So I tried to tell her she's so nice and thanks for asking me, but I'm not so interested. Yet she wouldn't take "no" for an answer. She wrote me a love letter in high school and handed it to me and I got increasingly comfortable trying to repeatedly reject her gently while she kept coming on more and more strongly. So I had to just stop and say, "No, I'm really not attracted to you! I'm sorry about that, please leave me alone!" So that went pretty poorly.
The subsequent times were much better because I was attracted to a girl and they all happened in night clubs. One included a girl who just straight up approached me while I was dancing and goofing off with friends and asked me who I was, how I was doing, and invited me to hang out with her quite quickly. I was so amazed because she was really cute: small and slim, exactly the type of girl I'd want to ask out myself. So of course I said, "Hell yeah!" and gave her my number.
Then on the date I dressed up as nice as I could, shaved as clean as I could. It was weird because I'm used to arranging the whole date. I showed up at a station to meet her and I was like, "Here I am. Are you ready to show this guy a good time?" Her choice in the dating was a bit bland -- dinner and movie, and I felt a bit awkward during dinner because she was coming on much more strongly than I ever expected. There was nothing I had to do to win her over. The whole time I just thought I was so lucky. She wore this low-cut top I remember that looked so sexy, and was actually doing most of the talking.1
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