- halfway is still about an hour away
- only one of you would be getting off from the meet up
I told my friends with benefits I wouldn't meet up with him last night because I'm selfish and am spotting so all that would come from it was me blowing him.
And he kept saying it was fine but then he also kept trying to get me to do it. Even went so far as to tell me to come over, spend the night, and just leave early for work today.
SECOND QUESTION: would you be annoyed if the person you were trying to meet up with kept saying no, while also talking about how much they wanted to?
Most Helpful Guy
First you weren't friends prior too it sounds like, so your not friends with benefits. Its just booty calls. Second the dude wants to get his rocks off and go do his thing. Your selling yourself short. I've seen girls try to get at least dinner out of guys before sucking then off or spreading their legs. Be smart and milk it for what it's worth. Also why can't you find guys who live closer? Two hours away seems ridiculous to try and make this booty call a relationship. Just words of advice, don't take it personal.0
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Most Helpful Girl
He should definitely be the one to come to see you. You shouldn't even have to drive half way. I have this same problem with my fiance. He lives an hour and a half away and I'm the one who has to make the drive a couple times a week to see him. It sucks... don't make the mistake I did. You're not being selfish... you're making sure you don't get walked over.2