Feeling so depressed right now...
I don't feel horny/sexual anymore at all, don't feel motivated to workout or get out, don't feel like socialising. don't even feel like sleeping or doing ANYTHING... just sitting down starring blankly into the wall with no emotions. Can't even be bothered to feel sad.
Shit grades... how do I eliminate this feeling of disappointment?
Feeling so depressed right now...
What Girls Said 20
Well, if the true source of your depression is your academic performance, then you've got to figure out what's negatively affecting your studies and fix it. Are you struggling with the material? Is it your professor? Do you have trouble learning with his/her teaching style? Maybe you just need a good tutor. Is it lack of time management that leads you to not get homework assignments done or to be unprepared for big assignments/tests?
Maybe a good step would be to email your professor and schedule a time to sit down and ask if there's any extra credit you can do or discuss what exactly you need to do in order to raise your grade. There was one semester when I was in college where I partied too hard and ended up in your situation but my professor was cool enough to let me do some assignments over. You never know unless you ask!2
You don't have to eliminate it. Or at least not now. Just accept this "feeling" or rather this absence of feeling because whatever you fight will resist. Especially thoughts and emotions. Let it be for a while and accept that what is done cannot be changed but keep in mind that not everything is lost. You have a whole new year to focus on now and even the work you fournished before remains valuable though the bad grades. I think that I told you a few months ago that effort is just as valuable as the end result, which is something I truly believe. Feel free to make your own judgement of it!
Only later on, when you feel better you could start to ponder on what to improve in your way of revising or whatever. But that's just life, an ongoing alteration between failure and success. x1
AHAHA results day today isn't it? 😂 Go out and get drunk and forget about your problems like everyone else is gonna do today 😂
Don't worry man, seeing as you already got in anyway you're fine. I didn't get the good grades for the uni I wanted to go to so I have to take an access course which is gonna take me a year.
Not the end of the world, and could be worse.
Now get your shit out there and socialise, you bum.1
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Sorry to hear that you're disappointed, but on the bright side, congratulations for getting an unconditional offer. That's a feat in itself.
Make this a lesson for yourself, go into uni with a fresh mindset and really apply yourself so you don't feel the same disappointment when you graduate. After all, you've entered a new stage of your career where an employer is going to look at your degree classification before they even glance your A-Levels. So this is your chance to do as best as you can.1
I am sorry you feel this way. If your academics are causing you to feel so down, maybe see if you can ask a classmate to study together or maybe see a tutor. I see you say you got in, so congratulations on that! That usually means they see potential in you, so hit the books and show them how good you are. Just dedicate a space to study, time to study and keep up with it. Also maybe join a study group. If not, a one on one with someone might help, too. You feel down now, but you can totally pick yourself up.1
Study harder; Hire a tutor - What helped me get 4/5 distinctions, was martial arts, because it taught me discipline. Start with studies EARLY on, so you won't feel pressured when you have to write exams. I'm an MBA student, I study every day, except on weekends. I know it's no fun studying, but just remember this: You will not have today over again. Each passing day is a gift, so is time - use your time wisely & efficiently. Studying hard does not last a lifetime. Get it done & be over with it.1
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I so don't like seeing you down. Getting shitty grades suck. But dwelling won't help. Try to figure out where you went wrong. Was it your studying habits? Did you just not get the work? Whatever the case, don't beat yourself up about it. It happens. All you can do is try harder next time. Don't be defeated. And you know not to give up. I'm here if you need an ear. Keep your head up mate. 💙1
Grades are not everything in life. They are not your friends or family. And people learn at different rates and through different ways. You can always do the course again, and get a tutor to help you. No shame in that. Don't be so hard on yourself, you're doing great2
You get a chick to give you a hug.
- I might be volunteering. * Might *1
It's not the end of the world if u receive bad grades. They should not define who you are and definitely not be the cause for unhappiness.2
Just try and do better next time look in to help like I use teaching textbooks for math work great for me lol😃1
I'll feel sad for you. Cheer up buttercup.
But I can't give tips on how to avoid disappointment, I'm the queen of it.1
Find what your weaknesses are and study better next time... That's all I can think of :/1
Umm 🤔 *thinking of what to say that can cheer you up* ...1
Just tell yourself there's always next time and that you'll try to get better marks next time!1
Get better grades.0
What Guys Said 12
I had the same patch. Then my uncle who's a heart surgeon talked me out of it. He said that when people/ companies hire you, they are not paying a price for your grades, they are paying a price for your brain. So keep it sharp, no one is a born genius, intelligence is a sword, you need to polish and sharpen it from time to time. Read books, not just your subject, general books, you'll learn so many different things which you'll find you can apply everywhere even in your field.
I can recommend you some books if you like
- Try any one from Dan Brown collection
The way Dan brown write his novels is very vivid and creative. Everything he tells has a significance somewhere in the story. His thrillers are on an entirely different level.
- Art of War (Sun Tzu)
Man if you read this book you'll never be scared of anything in your life. Sun Tsu was a chinese military strategist , and though it might seem the book is about self defense and all but it's not. Almost every other page has a quote and you can infer its meaning in your life. For eg it has a very beautiful quote "Even when the water hits the dam, its hits with full force" (not exact wordings) for me it means that I should try and give my best at everything no matter what result.
A beautiful mind (Sylvia nasar)
If you have seen the movie still read it. I am currently reading this one, its about a mathematician John Nash (died last year) who made the game theory, what is it? Read it and find out. Its about his life , the first part and how his mind works. Very beautiful book.
If you are looking for any particular genre you can pm me, if I have read any I can recommend.
Be glad you got an unconditional offer. Others are not so lucky. Tell yourself how you're going to stop this from happening in uni.
Go for a walk for an hour or so if you live in the countryside. This will help. Trust.
A friend of mine didn't even go to sixth form. Now he's making a decent amount of money for a 17 year old as an apprentice engineer which will eventually grow into some seriously good money (they offered him a job for when the apprenticeship ends). Not saying you should stop what you're doing, but I think it's relieving to know that people do perfectly well without university.
Anyway, like others said, the fact you got an unconditional offer means that they obviously want you a lot. I know this might sound bad, but think of all the others who are in way worse situations than you. Just to rationalise, y'know? All in all, just know you'll be fine.1
I can't have you not feeling sexual, this won't do at all. I just saw you got B's and C's... you should have seen my college grades😂😂😂😂 Cheer up, bro, the sun still comes up every morning regardless. Admirable that you take school seriously, but don't forget you're in the best part of your youth too, make sure you have a ton of fun👍 Just gotta strike that balance. Have you had trouble with grades in the past or is the shit you're studying now just really hard?0
Go on 9gag.2
accept it and figure what you can do about it. Remember if your thinking about college not to take a degree in something useless.1
Most employers don't care about grades so long as you passed whatever course or degree it was. If you're feeling like shit about this, do something to avoid this ever happening again! Don't be afraid to ask for help - colleges and universities have support services if you're struggling because they want you to succeed.0
just dont give up man. keep studying hard and never give up1
My physics professor threatened me to give me a back this semester if I absent any class.
It was my first interaction. Lol😂
I know dude... I understand the pain.1
Motivational music could help.0
Meh, who cares about grades while there are hot chicks around huh? ;D0
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