Have you ever succeeded in winning someone over after they have had a steady negative attitude toward you?
How did you accomplish it? How difficult was it?
Most Helpful Girl
I had. When I've started university basketball training I was rookie and a girl so coach looked at me as if I was unwanted, he didn't expect from me any good skills and that I only would be a hindrance. He treated me without a respect and talked with me harshly.
But I decided not to quit trainings but prove my worth with a hard work and improvement. And I actually did it, now he even treats me specially, even time by time is asking how my day was or being nice in general, even though he is strict to others. It took me more than a half of a year to make me see as a basketball player among others.2
Most Helpful Guy
What's the point? People's opinions are their own. You can't control what other people believe, you can only show them otherwise. I've had people's opinion of me grow and shift over time based on my actions, but they changed their own mind and I didn't lift a finger to influence them.2