Is this wrong? I dont want to be seen with my boyfriend if he has an ugly car... I dont want people to judge me and think im trailor trash by my car.
I dont want to be seen with my boyfriend?
What Guys Said 23
If you worry too much about what other people think of you, you will never be happy. There will always be someone that disapproves of you no matter what you do. All that matters is that you and the people who care about you think.2
I would try to get over that and not worry what other people think of you - It is the driver of the car not the car you are dating.1
LOL.. an ugly car will make you appear to others that you are trailer trash. That is precious OP!
If you happen to be hitching a ride and see a 1958 green Edsel station wagon going down the road blowing more smoke than a factory chimney, it will be me and I will not stop to pick you up just to save you that embarrassment.
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Wow... Never be ashamed of your boyfriend, he probably had enough to afford that car, and probably to go visit you too. Not everyone can afford a good fancy car. Take advantage of your boyfriend I'm pretty sure he tries his best, If the car is that bad I'm pretty sure he is a little emberassed because he would love to impress you but he probably dosent have the money to. Like I said don't be ashamed of if, I'm sure he tries his best.1
No, they'll just judge as trash by your attitude.1
It seems to me that your judging yourself more than "other people". Most people really don't care what "other people" are doing let alone what they are saying.0
Then find a boyfriend with a good car if that's the only thing that matters to you.1
Damn. It's better than no car, you petty b*tch3
If u love him then car not matter it about feeling what u feel about him1
Pretty sure this is a troll, or else you're a fucking prick simple as that.1
I didn't even have a car till i was 28.
I owned a condo sure... But a car?0
If you don't want be seen with a guy with a ugly car, my dad once told me story.
Girls never knew him to he got a car than when he got a car , every girl wanted to date him. My advice face it you have a problem than you need to work on things cause it will just keep getting worst. Another thing too females who can't Skype and show their face online must have something their hiding.0
At least you're honest, most girls feel like this but don't say it.
As a man I actually appreciate that you said that.0
Break up with him. If you will distance yourself from your man because you're too insecure about public appearance (especially something as stupid as an ugly car) then this is a failed relationship from the start.1
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What Girls Said 10
Girl, chill. A car is hardly a representation of who your boyfriend is, or who you are. It's just a thing to get you from point A to point B safely. If that's all you've got to worry about, then you're doing damn well!
But why are you so worried in the first place? If you're dating someone that you truly like/love, then it shouldn't matter what car they drive, or whether people see you with him. Literally nobody will look at his car and say, "oh, she's trailer trash cause she's in THIS kind of car!'
People judge you for your actions more than anything. I'd stress less, a car is NOTHING to worry about.1
First of All, SERIOUSLY?
Second Of All, Who are You Dating? Him Or The Car? IF you LIKE him, his car shouldn't matter. The clothes he wears SHOULDN'T matter, His Family Shouldn't matter, his color shouldn't matter, his hobbies shouldn't matter. You Should Like Him For Him.2
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Is your boyfriend otherwise a good guy? Maybe you are concerned with being judged? Cars aren't as big of a deal as some other things people who are judgmental about make issue with. Are you concerned that you are going to be discriminated against somehow because of this?0
Stupid reason not to want to be seen with him. Having an old car doesn't make someone trailer trash, just their attitude and you have a horrible attitude.1
Then ride in your own car.1
at least it is because of his car and not him1
If you're embarrassed by stuff like that then maybe you shouldn't be dating him. People deserve to be loved for who they are not for what they have. You don't want people to think of you as Trailor Trash? Don't be a douche.1
Thats pretty shitty. At least he drives.1
Can already picture the resting b*tch face0
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