Just your average 21 year old college student here. Been doing pretty well at every other aspect of life except for the ladies. I know, I know, I'm super young and don't have to worry about this yet and shouldn't be focusing on it. However, it's tough to not want them because hormones. I started liking girls when I was 13 or so. There was a beautiful blonde in my high school who always called me cute and adorable and sweet. She was really playful too, she came up from behind me and gave me hugs in lunch line, put her hands on my shoulders, her head on my neck if we were waiting in a line and she was "tired." I thought she liked me at the time too. This isn't as related but we played flag football in our gym class and she was playing quarterback and I was on the other team. She decided to tuck it and run and I went to grab her flag and accidentally touched her boobs (her flag was way above her waist in my defense). Instead of getting mad she kept giggling. I was horrified the whole time honestly. But after that she just kept asking me to help her with homework, and whenever I tried to flirt with her she ignored me. Why? Who knows. She seemed to love playing with me and teasing, and then when I tried to pursue she had none of it. To a lesser degree, this has happened with pretty much every other girl I've liked. They show signs of interest, I reciprocate, they stop. This last girl is still in my head. Unbelievably smart, cutest 6 foot tall girl I've ever seen. She's a grad student now at my school. Haven't actually talked to her since last year. We used to help each other with homework, then she decided to stop talking to me, stop responding to texts. Hates me. I don't know why. Sometimes I want to send her a text telling her how I felt and still feel, but I know she doesn't care and that hurts so badly. I constantly go back and forth in my head "Should I do it or should I try to forget her." I feel like I may have loved her, it was definitely something more. Ugh :(
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Honestly it sounds like your still learning. It also sounds that you like me aproach women on more freindly terms. Which can back fire ask they might not want to romantically like us and want to just be freinds. I'm currently stuck trying to ask out one of my female freinds. However with her I actually had no intention for a long time to ever ask her out.
It sounds like your 13 year old girl was just starting to like guys and started wondering about them. She liked being touched on the boob probably because no one had ever done so. At that age I had a girl show me her boobs in PE on accident by doing her pushups in front of me with a huge grin.
There could be a ton of reasons why the most recent one stopped talking to you. I doubt that she hates you. Women normally lets you know that they hate you before cutting contact. I'm guessing the problem is that you keep texting her. She like you said does not want that attention from you. So you should stop texting her unless you just want to be her freind. I suggest stopping with her. She is clearly not romantically interested in you and your pushing is making her pull away even more from you.
I understand it is really hard to give up on someone but with some women you do just have to give up and move on. Sorry mate.1
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