I can't even explain why, I just get this weird sick feeling every time (morning sickness? Lmao). I do want them eventually. Or a puppy.
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah unless you have kids.. you're not ready for them! it's normal.. you. need to focus on other things in life.. and not just get carried away by the dreaming thingy.. Try focusing on life's different sort of things.. engage in creative activities.. avoid such illusional thinking of kids n stuffs..
By the way.. your guy is lucky to see those beautiful eyes every time he wants!! 👍😊
Most Helpful Girl
Actually, yes. The thought of being pregnant with all the physical changes, nausea and perhaps painful conditions and then the pain of actually delivering - it scares me, a lot. I know as a female, I'm supposedly built for this stuff but I'd be scared. Only if my (current) SO would want to be a father and have a family with me would I seriously consider it. I've had that same dream you speak of a couple of times and I also woke up in cold sweat and had to check that it really was just a dream.
I'd also worry about what kind of world I'd be bringing them into, what kind of life I would be able to give them, and what strains it could possibly put on the relationship.