I'm not saying that you can't fantasize about the perfect person loving you or anything.. but why do some people think that they deserve perfection just for existing? Why do you think this is?
- They are full of themselves/narcissisticVote A
- They don't think in terms of reality/they're in a dreamworldVote B
- Both of the aboveVote C
- Another reason (please explain)Vote D
- I wouldn't know the answer if it hit me in the face in the form of a rock.Vote E
Most Helpful Guy
In my personal opinion, I try not to feel "entitled" to the perfect person, but still remain hopeful that I'll find the perfect person for my individual self. By this I mean someone whose traits compliment mine and help me (and my partner) grow into better, stronger and happier versions of ourselves. Included with this is the universal desire for my subjective perception of ultimate beauty to be met, which may be unrealistic, but I feel it is felt equally by both genders. I admit my standards may be a little higher than I have any right for them to be, but we should all have high standards when it comes to finding a suitable long-term partner I think.2
Most Helpful Girl
They don't have a good grasp on themselves or what they really want in a relationship. Sometimes they look for perfect to avoid intimacy all together.
I was in a committed relationship with someone like this and had to end it overtime. Nice guy to everyone and good intentions. But as I had to take time away from running to spend with him I gained 4 pounds and he noticed.
He was so stuck on himself and accomplishments. His accomplishments were his Dad paying the down ona house in 200& and gifting him ownership in rental properties.
He is still to this day working the job he landed at internship and hasn't been promoted or made a difference.
He's also overweight but barely 6'0 tall which is his only win.
He has a boyfriend w Benefits that he should marry, she's awesome and in love with him. But she is 15 pounds overweight so he won't even consider it. She makes six figures.
All you can do is be sad for them and move on.1