Is it bad if I love looking sexy and provocative?

It mind sound very cliché, but when I lost pounds at my twenties, I found out that a lot of guys keep wanting to date me, and everyone tell me that I’m pretty. So I wanted to become sexier, sooo much, that I died my hair blond, wear miniskirts and high heels, and I also had a rhinoplasty. I know that it’s because of my clothes and make up that I became very popular amoung guys. So I like seducing but just with words because I never kissed a boy and I never had a boyfriend. I’m 100 % virgin. So when I say that to peoples adding the fact that I study to become a doctor, they keep telling me that I should give up on my look. But I personally don’t see anything wrong with being a bimbo that love sexy clothes and make up, as long as I’m not hurting anyone. I never flirt with taken guys, but the fact that I’m not romantic since I study a lot beside of taking care of my self, make peoples believes that I’m a manipulative bitch. It’s true that becoming confident and provocative make me intimidating toward shy girls, but I don’t intend to hurt them. So is something wrong with me? Is it bad if I love looking sexy and provocative?

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  • The only thing wrong with you is your narcissism. :)

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  • no definitely not

    you should be proud of the way you look

    if it's a masterpiece why hide it behind a curtain
    show it's aesthetic to the world

    you're flawless

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Nothing is wrong with you. Although it sounds like you need that continued validation on your looks. It's kind of a passive-aggressive thing. But you just be yourself.

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What Guys Said 10

  • There's nothing wrong with you, dress how you like and keep being awesome and focusing on your studies

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  • You do you. It's nice to look at (if a bit frustrating).

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  • Well if u have a boyfriend isn't good I mean why u would do that u will make just trouble

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  • I just don't care...

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  • Do what you want

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  • Nah go dress to impress

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  • Its good

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  • Hey, whats up? Where do you live?

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  • Yes it is bad if you want a serious relationship.
    It is effective if you wanna attract fuckboys.
    And it is bad to provoke people.

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  • Same here :DD
    (I don't think it's bad)

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What Girls Said 3

  • You just give off a certain vibe, but as long as you understand that people might judge you, it's fine.

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  • Absolutely not, you go girl

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  • Do what you want.

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