What do you think of 30 year old virgins?


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  • I've answered this before, and I feel like people took it as me attacking and trying to rip apart someone. I'm not, more than anything.. I'm curious. I would wonder why they haven't had sex yet-like is it religion, are they kinda awkward, is it something else?

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    • I have no idea. I had sex once several years ago so not a virgin here

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    • @Highsxhoolstudent15 small subconscious judgments based on life experiences aren't exactly what I'm referring to. I'm talking about being super judgmental and making assumptions about people and thinking you know everything about them based on first impressions and never taking the time to get to know more.

  • I was one and I thought I was still cool! My ex husband was a 40yr old one and he was not cool... so it varies! Lol!

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  • Not that people in my personal life would know without directly asking, but I'm in that pool. Religious reasons. I don't expect the majority of people to understand. I've had a number of breakups because those boundaries were too much for some. I don't fault them though, as I do understand abstinence isn't for everyone.

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  • I am one, not by choice, but due to being shy, feeling unaccomplished and unsuccessful in other areas of life, my social skills are poor due to being made fun of for the way my voice sounded going through puberty. Plus being shy, you never get a girl/woman approaching you, they may like you from a distance or do some stupid beat around the bush flirting, but generally there is nothing they would actually speak to you about. I'm not religious, that isn't stopping me, it's always been about lack of success in general life.

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    • I actually apptoached a guy I viewed as shy, but he showed me in other ways he was interested and was persistent with it. As long as you don't do it in a creepy way like stalking on social media it's fine.

    • Thanks for MHO!

    • @emmily2396 no I wouldn't do that, even if I did look at their profile, I would go liking pictures or commenting or going back through 5 years of stuff or whatever lol

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What Girls Said 28

  • Nothing. As long as you are fine in rest I don't care.

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  • They have not found the one whom they loved and loved them yet.

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  • If the guy is 30 years and virgin girls call him as "USeLESS"

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  • I think it gives me the option to teach him how I like it

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    • Nice.. there aren't so much girls like that.. that's good

  • Nothing unusual.. I am 27 and thats not far from there.

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  • Depends on the reason. If he's waiting for the right woman, I'm cool with that. If he is one because no one wants him or because he thinks girls have cooties, I'm not.

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  • To me it would imply religion which I would tentatively approach.

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  • Nothing wrong with it. Might not be common but still okay...

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  • Being a virgin is fine

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  • Nothing. That they just didn't have or want sex

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  • Kinda odd

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  • i dont think much of it, what do you think?

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  • Creepy

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    • Lol why creepy? What if they don't act creepy?

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    • Lol maybe they are waiting for that perfect person. To bad they don't exist

    • devaluing that word even more...

  • Nothing really, I'm a virgin so it's not weird.

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  • It's good if it's by choice.

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  • Who cares.

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  • if you have a personality it doesn't matter

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  • Nothing. Seriously nothing.

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  • Nothing wrong with that.

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  • Well. Not always their fault.

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  • I don’t. I’d be surprised, but nothing further

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  • Koel

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  • It’s up to them

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  • Pathetic, weird and I believe there could be something wrong with them.

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  • I’m a little concerned.

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  • It's sad, I pity them.

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    • What if they didn't want it or don't really care about it?

    • Then they are probably asexuals and don't need a relationship.

  • Good for them, it’s none of my business.

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  • I could care less. I feel like those people are more pure. I kind of like them more but overall I don’t care.

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    • So if I was a 30 year old virgin you'd think I'm pure?

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    • Typo

    • Haha. No worries. I actually started doing mathematical calculation of the statement to see what makes more sense. That's why I pointed it out. In a way, I was questioning myself

What Guys Said 41

  • That they've missed out on 17 years of the fun normal people have.

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    • People start when they're 13?

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    • Yeah we have a more introverted culture for sure. I was in Texas not long ago and was shocked by how many strangers talked to me. A waitress called me darling and my mind immediately went to 'what is she trying to get from me?'

      We are generally suspicious of very friendly people I think. It's just a different culture.

    • Yeah, I'm 75, and sometime I'll see some 18 year old hot babe someplace, and I'll just walk right up and say, "Hey honey chile, if I kill my wife will you marry me?" And she'll usually say something like, "Sure, grandpa, just show me the will first." Then we'll giggle and I''l say, "who's yo' Daddy?'" and when she tells me I'll say, "You know, I used to fit your grandad with glasses." Up where you live the girl would call the cops.

  • Respect. Back in the day soldiers would get married in their late 30's to early 40's after serving over 10 years in the military so it's not too strange.

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  • I think you're bored and need to ask more introspective questions

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  • There’s probably something undesirable about you that’s resulted in you not having sex yet

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    • I'm not a virgin.. Why does everyone assume this question is about me?

  • Ok you are saving your self for a special someone, but come on really

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  • People live their own life. No one elses business.
    When people want to lose their virginity is up to them.

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  • By a sexdoll their coming equipped with ai these day ;3

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  • That they are either asexual or if they are male they are a failure in their work, if they are a female there's something drasticaly wrong with how she treats people.

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  • Wow the virgin shaming is strong in this thread... you all should be ashamed.

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  • I don't think anything about it other than that is their choice and none of my business.

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  • It’s none of my business so I don’t think much of them.

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  • Who cares about strangers, regardless of age, sex lives.

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  • some of the nicest guys i know were 30th year oldvirgins, that user that deactivated @hypno-trip

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  • Your a wizard Harry! Sorry, just had to make that joke... In all seriousness I am probably gonna end up being one, so that's cool.

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  • I don't see anything wrong with it. I'm 41 and a virgin.

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  • Either unlucky or they lacked interest in the idea.

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  • Those are the most lazy, I know for myself here is just not to explode..

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  • They either can't find someone to fuck, are waiting tilp marriage or they are asexual.

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  • DISGUSTING... Please at least use ur FINGER!!!

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  • I'll be one in six years

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  • You dont see many of them

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  • They are 30 years old and they haven't had sex

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  • That he/she is 30 and is a virgin

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  • That they haven't had the right chance yet.

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  • poor social and communication skills

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  • They are 10 years away from a great movie

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  • I think their people too.

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  • It was a shitty prequel to 40 Year Old Virgin

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  • Who cares

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  • Nothing. Let them live their life.

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