Do you think people find you intimidating?
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So I've been told yes. I'm working on appearing more friendly and "domestic". But friends and others have commented that I have a very imposing way of conducting myself and an icy stare. Can't do anything about my eye color though. But often it's fun to be intimidating!
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It's weird. Some people do find me intimidating, but it doesn't often seem to make sense who those people are. It's never anyone I have been upset with or anything.
In high school, one of my girlfriend's divorced mom started dating this guy, and he was terrified of me for some reason. Never found out why.
I had a neighbor who was a cop a couple of towns over. I'd helped him out a couple of times (pulled out a tree stump from his front yard, fixed his satellite dish cables) and we talked some at a block party. Then I ran into him at the shooting range, and he was having some trouble, so I gave him some pointers and it seemed to help him a bit. But he saw me shoot (I was a competitive shooter at the time) and apparently he told a couple of local cops to watch out for me, which got me some negative attention for a little while. Apparently, being able to shoot well must mean that you are potentially a dangerous criminal? Despite the fact that most criminals couldn't hit a barn if they were shooting from inside it?
I even had a guy who didn't want to tell me his song request at a DJ gig, so a girl at his table came up instead. Really?
People can be so strange sometimes...
Yes. When you have RFB and a quiet nature people don't know how to take it.
Nowadays I'm more aware of my expression and try to smile more so they won't be so intimated.
But im unsure if its working though 😂😂
Not that I know of and no one has ever told me that, in real life or online.
I do find those with moderator mark on gag as intimidating haha! I also less likely to initiate conversation with an influencer because I assume they must have tons of pm to reply to.
say what? I find nothing about you intimidating.
No, I'm the opposite, not intimidating enough. I'm very approachable and likeable in real life, especially by things that go "meow".
I know many of my neighbors, social butterfly...
I can be very blunt at times & some find that intimidating.
I have no idea what people think of me until they tell me what they think. There's no way to read someone's thoughts. There are people who are intimidated by humans in general. It seems normal for people to be intimidated by everyone they encounter in public, especially after drinking coffee.
I've been told I was, but as for me thinking about whether, or not people do, then no.
I try not to get distracted on things I have control over. If I worried so much about whether found me intimidating then I would never approach, or much less help carry on a discussion with someone willing to.
Lol rarely. Some one has to be super intelligent for me to be intimidated. Not saying I’m super intelligent, but I haven’t found someone around be in a very very long time that has intimidated me. And certainly no one on here, or online has ever intimidated, period
lmfao read my post To day I got kick out off the mall for looking at people YES FOR REAL? ↗
Unless it's someone you think is going to physically hurt you I don't see why one should be intimidated by anyone.
Depends, but I'm mostly an introvert so I don't mind it either way.
Apparently so, yes. I've also been told that a couple of times recently.
Yeah I do... For obvious reasons... Which is funny cause I really don't look that intimidatin, and people even tell me that.. One female did tell me the truth though.. I appreciated her for that.. XD
Yeah, I've been told by quite a few people that I'm intimidating.
No, I hide my powerlevel very well 👓 only someone like me can detect my powerlevel and these people only approach me if they have a really good reason to
Yes. Because of my quietness and looks. Some thinks I'm mean or stuck up, but that is far from the truth. My meanness is me being truthful and honest which can come off as being blunt. But hey, better the truth than a lie, right? And me being so-called stuck up is just me being stressed, frustrated, tired, worn out, sick, or me concentrating, intuiting, or being very quiet. 9/10x I'm in my head. I learned to just love life, but you don't have to tolerate the nonsense of other people. I don't bite, but by the time they see the real me, they find others ways to bully me. Just stay away from such people.
In person i've been told i am since i'm 6'5" and it makes me laugh everytime i hear that because i'm soft like cookie dough. Lol
yuP people comment on my pics that i look like a serial killer and intimidating.. and i am handsome lol
Have a resting bastard face , rarely smile , am quite big and have that ex military no nonsense attitude and demeanor , so some may do. I am OK once people get to know me , but that takes time.
Online I'm not sure but I definitely think people get intimidated by me in real life. I've been told I have a resting bitch face so many times.
I don't think I'm intimidating, but people have told me so anyways so whatever.
To be fair I made a myTake writing in great detail why people should start throwing bricks at each other to flirt.
You don’t seem intimidating 🙂You seem very approachable if anything 😁
I had my moments where I gave off those bad vibes but then I opened up more and people like talking to me 😎
It depends personality. Probably in college lot student maybe be a bit intimidating. Other time it depends on person. by the way this is my sims self pic.
I don't think I'm easy to talk to but I'm not intimidating
When i get blunt i wouldn't be surprised if some people do. But geberally i try to not be intimidating
A few people in real life, maybe. I don't know why though.
no because i want to look like a bitch but they still talk to me
LOL! no. I don't think anyone has ever found me intimidating...
Yes yes yes 😭 girls never approached me and one girl even asked me to know why I don't smile at people and talk with them. Even my aunt said the same thing.
Most people find me off-putting at first yet beautiful. I wear a lot of black and when im out I always look put together. even on a bad day.
I don't smile if ever and Im a very matter of fact type of person. I get told I act like a live doll. I make no facial expressions when people talk.
I have extremely dry humor and I run mostly off of pure logic
Im told I have a very intense stare that creeps people out for some reason Or insults them so they put their load guns up which I find amusing at best because I never take the bait.
Most of my friends at first told me they thought I was a stuck up bitch till they realize I was human too lol Some even said I made them feel like they better not have a hair out of place or forget to dot an I because of my serious looks and like Im judging them so how I guess.
I've been told that irl a lot, especially from my parents 😅😂
Probably. My facial expressions range from expressionless to angry, especially when I'm uncomfortable.
No i don't so but i imagine it happens to the best of us
i think your easy to talk with and i am comfortable speaking
Some people do, I'm not sure why. I'm very sweet lol
not really but I'm not easily intimidated so I just kinda assume everyone else is the same. I'm probably wrong but hey...
Yeah.. For some reason. Maybe I look mean, people are always apologizing to me like they've upset me or something
I'm probably one of the least intimidating being, not in a weak way, but probably because I look friendly.
Women find me intimidating but only because feminists have told them all men are rapists.
No one ever initiates convs with me. I'm not enough of a human being to bother with :)
No. Annoying maybe. I'm too happy to seem intimidating.
On here, I'm not sure. In real life people tend to be.
I sometimes come off as a big mean looking guy in real life.
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