You don't need a women for sex. A hug with a women can cure depression.. A soothing touch of a women can heal the broken heart.
What do you mean “soothing touch”? For me, sex is one of the, if not, deepest expressions of love and care you have for an intimate partner. When I have sex with a woman, I expressing my love for her through how I touch her body, talk her her, kiss her, etc. I don’t just find sex to be a purely physical act, for pleasure. Sex for me is important in bonding and connection.
EmbraceThePain is actually a 100% right about the sex thing, just saying.
I'm the same way. There are others ways to get those same feelings through non sexual acts. Soothing touch meaning rubbing her hair as her head lays on ur chest listening to your heart beat. Caressing her with ur soft spoken words of affection.
@Phoenix98 Thanks man @5points2gspotYes, I agree and understand what you’re saying. I just think sex is the next step above that, where it is a full demonstration or culmination of my feelings and words of love to her. Sex is the physical manifestation of the feelings I have for her. The intensity of the feelings cannot be described through words. I have to physical caress or touch her because humans can not express these emotions through any other way. I do agree with you that rubbing my head as I lay on your chest is one of many demonstrations of intimacy and love that cannot be replicated in any other way.
Then for you yes. Sex is a need to survive.
@5points2gspot Not only a hug can cure. A tongue-kiss is much better and yes. I'm not into using women as tools. I love them a lot.
@roland77 I'm trying to not use sexual acts but to simulate the mind to feel the same feeling without a sexual act..
@5points2gspot Sorry for hearing that then. Physics are so awesome when it comes to sexual acts.
@5points2gspot Hmm, a physical sex-avoiding behavior then. Okay, have it your way. Boy am I glad I got myself an #African... So simple yet secure and not crazy in mind.
That went wayyy left.. Totally went off topic there lol.
@5points2gspot Confusing! Please clarify what you really are after. Me: emotional attachment and physical love-making, not just in my mind as I'm no platonic so she isn't, too.
Interesting answer... I like your username by the way.
Thank you!! Who hasn't needed advice from the OG goth mom at some point? Hm? I do try to emulate Mrs. Addams in more than just aesthetic.
TrueThanks again for your answer
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Sorry to ask directly, are you an asexual? Just curious, because for me I want a woman next to me not only for making children but also for fulfillment emotionally, for sex to express my intimate love to her and bound with her much closer than just having a nice female pal with me.
@roland77 Definition of "to need":"expressing necessity or obligation"Where in books is it written that the other gender is a necessity or obligation to have? As I mentioned, if you want to reproduce the traditional way, then yes, it is an obligation, but only then.
@SueShe Emotional attachment is nothing then for you?
@roland77 how does that translate for example to gay men or lesbian girls?
@SueShe For my kind of understanding, I might be wrong, gay feel more female the more gay they are. And with lesbian, just flipped around: feeling male the more lesbian they are. Bisexual is loving both genders. (bi = both).
@roland77 thanks for the detailed explanations. Still, that does not solve your problem of needing the opposite gender for "emotional attachment" as you so nicely put it.
@SueShe I'm feeling lonely without any woman. And the other bed-half (a 1.8m bed wide here) is simply empty. Someone to hug, kiss, make-love besides reproduction and cuddle up with, someone to share shower and body-care, like brushing each other's teeth. Sure I can do that all alone but it is so nice and feels so safe and comfortable to me doing it with a partner.
@roland77 okay, thanks for your insight on this subject.I will call it quits here because I feel I am just misusing the thread for our little chat. Was nice talking to you and have a great Sunday.
@SueShe Thank you, too. Have a great remaining Sunday, too.
Three thoughts about this question: She is #lesbian or a #feminist 3.0 or both. ;-)
Finally a mature answer than these sex-only or asexual answers. :-)
Only for sex is purely boring to me. I don't want her as a masturbation-replacement. I want to feel emotions with her!
A little less, isn't it? #Cunnilingus #Anilingus #Fellatio #Coitus - only to name a few. And yes, I am for emotional sex, not porn-styled sex-only sex.
@roland77 I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking like for example if my dog die I need someone to emotional support me.As for sex the only kind of sex I know is the one seen in porn. I'm a virgin so
@alice55 That porn is unrealistic is hopefully know to you?
@roland77 I know this many people have said so like "porn isn't how it happen in real life, etc..." but that's basically all I know considering I'm a virgin.
@alice55 Then please find a special #boyfriend, that has a good #personality and you might want to stick with for a longer time. Always keep in mind, that sex is not everything but sure I can understand virgin people wanting to know what sex feels like. And please speak with him with an open heart what is going on inside you, he surely doesn't have a mind-scanner sense.
@alice55 don't give your virginity to these #needy #jerks or #cowards.
@roland77 That's going to be hard since guys my age are quite obsessed with sex and I'm so awkward with people.
@roland77 I definitely won't, I'm too shy to do it anyway ><
@alice55 then simply wait and try to love someone with a bigger age gap. BTW: My girlfriend is 28 and she is a virgin in body. No sex at all with another person so far. But she read a lot about #sexuality.
@roland77 That's what I'm planing to do, I think it's the better option. Wow a virgin at her age it's pretty rare.I don't really read about it, I just read what I come across on here.
And how do you want to have children then? Yeah right, adopt one...
And feel love? I cannot love a gay, period.
Lol, it's sad either way man. Man or woman, that's pathetic.
@Carbon-12 ya, but men berated for this more than women do
And "docking" your emotions with ours... :-)
@roland77 yep, emotional intimacy is what I consider included in companionship 😊
Thank you. :-)
So less are up-voting your comments, why are people so much into #superficiality while #personality is so much more important? Yes, the stupid "medias" are telling them.
@roland77 well I don’t think this site generally attracts a very balanced view of society firstly, it’s mostly students, unemployed or retired people here, or plenty with issues. Im sure if you asked elsewhere the opinions would differ somewhat more.
I have figured that out by myself already. :-) But thanks for seeing it the same way.
And nothing better than a tight wet pussy
@BlueDream Just don't abuse us guys being in emotions for sex only. Not nice to find out she was only after my penis or tongue...