You haven't really met all the white guys and not even all the black guys to come to that conclusion. From all the guys (black &white) you have met, if you have always substantially liked black guys more (which is purely coincidental) then there could be 1st - a colour/race bias inflicted in you from your childhood which in fact makes you more relating to the black guys (no matter whether you are white or black or any other colour or origin) or you created a colour/race bias yourself from your past experiences with black and all other race's people. This bias keeps growing time to time if you meet another nice black guy or any other douchebag who isn't black. We all do this some way or the other, it's not typically racist but yea fundamentally it is because you are simply judging someone already by liking or not liking them just because of their outer appearance. Try liking or getting to know a mixed race dude, this will self destruct your bias mechanism.
Really? Well I don't mean to be rude to black people, but I think you're going through stockholm syndrome. Look at the reaction of black people everytime a white person/cop gets acquitted in a trial case in America. Riots break out. Black people go around beating up non-blacks and looting stores. Though there are black people scorning such actions, it still happens. Point is, "how is it you feel safer around black people after all that rage?"
it's a sexual/romantic preference, but preference doesn't mean exclusively that type. if you make the conscious choice to only be interested in black guys, it would be more of a narrow-minded choice I would say, because you exclude anyone from a different ethnicity from being interesting enough to you. of course, if you're still open to men from other ethnicities, but simply seem to be more attracted to black guys, then who's to say anything about that. you can't chose whether you're into men or women, whites, Asians, of African decent - if it's not consciously chosen, it simply is what it is.
and if i may be so pedantic, racism is something organisational and constitutional; it goes beyond a single person and is a strategic and long-term devaluing and disadvantaging of people of non-white/Caucasian ethnicity. if we're talking about single people, it's called xenophobia.
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If you mean you only like black guys as a partner (potential mate) then there's nothing wrong with that and it's not racist. Some of us have racial preferences and that's okay. Lol i like white Latinos and that's just my preference. :)
Its not necessarily racist to say that, because there is a difference in races, and people can have preferences.
But your reasoning seems a bit odd if it's based solely on their race. That might be "racist" in a way. I don't know if black people would mind that kind of racism though. The word has a broad usage now.
Believing (negative) things about people based solely on their race, and then allowing those beliefs to influence your actions is literally the definition of racism. So yes.
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not racist but kind of no races is better , like race worshiping which is what that is. it sounds simaler toa racist but its not you just idolize one race which is very stand offish to other people
No. It's literally just preference, any race can be attracted by certain races and not be attracted by other races if that's what they feel. People pull out the race card for no reason.
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