You know your body, your health and your limits better than anyone. Your roommate might be trying to help, but acting like you don't have something you do is not a help. But some people don't understand unless they experience it themselves.. Good luck with the job search 💜💙🙂
Thanks for understanding and Thank you :) I'll need it
Love the way you think 💙👍🙂
yeeesss so hear you and same.. I keep my scale in the kitchen where you have to walk past it to the fridge and from the fridge.. And I abhor those people too 😂😂 can eat whatever, whenever and send like I gain just looking at food 😂
Lol! I should do that: put my scale right by the refrigerator to keep me from eating nonsense! Does it help you at all?
It used to, lately 🤔 it's not that I even eat a lot it's that I'm back to my bad habit of eating only once a day usually and that's not good. .
Really? I mean it sounds like you're basically fasting- which can actually help with weight loss unless you pig out and eat a REALLY heavy or bad meal at once (over 1200-1500+ calories). I'm actually fasting myself, or trying to: I will eat in an 6-8 hour window, then fast the rest of the day, along with exercise. It's a hit or miss; there are days I want to eat everything in sight! And other days I have no appetite at all. But when I behave myself, it usually helps the scale go down, lol.
The scale went down a little just not enough lololol work in progress
Hahahaha to the first lolololBut yeah men don't always admit when they overdue, ..Hope everything's okay.. I'd say try not to worry but I know that's easier said than done.. 🙏🙏
Thank for MHO
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I hear you there.. My hubby got diagnosed with his kidney failure when he was 33
What makes you so anxious do you think 🤔
I think it's more about the... "What if" of getting yelled at for not being responsible...I know places don't normal do that... But like... If I'm calling electric is probably cuz I forgot to make a payment... Or if I'm applying for a job it's getting rejected...But once I'm on the phone I'm already in the situation and don't have time to freak out... I'm still a little nervous but not as much.
Glad to hear it 👍🙂
I can so understand that. I hope everything had been checking out okay tho
@Brainsbeforebeauty 1st Follow-up colonoscopy, with an amazing doctor, a woman, of course!! We talked, before and I said I wanted to see, and know what was going on, so they didn't knock me out, completely, like the last one, when they found some bad things!!She's the best, and women doctors are always the best!! They listen, and care, and take their time with you, like you are a person!! :) She took the time, when I asked about some things, and why, and she explained.Everything went fine, and it wasn't at all bad, being totally aware and awake! There were a couple little things she found, but said they were probably nothing, and not to worry.Most people have their first one, at 50, but now, some docs are going to 45, and even 40, as more and more seem to be having issues! If they catch it early enough, they can treat it, and so you don't go Chadwick Boseman's way!!If you haven't had it, you should, just to be safe!! It's not that bad!! Certainly better than what I had to deal with!!
I had a colonoscopy way back in my 20's when they thought they saw cancerous cells..
But glad everything seemed to check it okay with yours
@Brainsbeforebeauty You are OK? Follow up checks, OK too?
Yeah. Well do need to go in Dec/Jan for a recheck to rule out cervical cancer
@Brainsbeforebeauty Was there a questionable thing, before? I have a friend who got a scare, with a potentially 'precancerous' result, with a yearly test, and she freaked out!!They did retest, 6 months later, and everything was fine!! Seemed like one of those weird 'false positive' things.
If pap test don't check out they usually recheck in 6-12 months.
@Brainsbeforebeauty I don't remember the schedules for that, being single for a while. I just want to know you are OK! :)
Oh I so hear you there.. My older daughter just had to get tested for Corona Virus cuz someone at her job tested positive. Her results were negative but it also said some people in the early stages can have it and test negative. And this is the daughter that has a child, so worried if she gets it he will too... And I'm protective mama bear so if someone try to harm one of mine.. shits gonna go down, so yeah I totally get where you're coming from
You'll figure it out..
Cuz sometimes we expect perfection even from ourselves, we're our own worst critic.. Don't be so hard on yourself.. nothing can be perfect all the time 💙🙂
Well, for me I'm not really being hard on myself. It's not like I'm beating myself up over it. At least not anymore (my instructors make occasional hard landings).It's more like a riddle. A puzzle. A mathematical equation that must be solved. I replay it again and again so I can get to the bottom of the conundrum. But on occasion, now and then it devolves into beating myself up. I remedy this by fixing myself a drink!😉
Ah okay. Got yah
Yeah I hear you there.. Ever since I had tubal pregnancy and emergency surgery in my early 20's my tummy never been flat flat 😕
There's lots of other things you could do
Yeah but is fun and I really want Iron Man haha. I have to get level 100, I'm currently level 55
Do you see anyone for your OCD?
No, but lately I've been thinking I should
Yeah maybe that would help
Glad you're at peace with it and with yourself 🙏🙂
If you're there for her you're not failing, cuz that's all you can really do!
Thanks for that. She says the same, and i agree with her, it just breaks my heart to see her cry
Because that's what real love is. When they hurt, you hurt
Noone ever had a perfect game. Don't be too hard on yourself
Tx💙💙🦄 iki 's dum. I jus feel lk people jus w8ing 4 m2 fail so dey cn turn their bk on me. My skl n evn my teachers really put a lot of pressure on me. Which i 💙 but h8 @ da sametime if tms
Go by your expectations, not others.. You got this 👍👍
Then that's no so bad if it relieves stress 😊
So did you chill?
Yeah like I am trying
You can't say that Icuz life ain't over.. you never know what your future holds
If I had a dime for every time I've heard that I'd be living in a mansion.
Better to think positive than to just give up tho
Lol why so many?
@Brainsbeforebeauty Just an issue I've had for quite some time
Yeah work can definitely be a stresser.. but glad your windows arrived and installed 👍🙂
So is her brother your son or is that her half brother?
He i s my son. I'm not the biological dad of my daughter
I don't think you need to.. You seem like a very polite young man... Very refreshing to see in a world where people seem to have forgotten what it is to have manners or respect...
Thank you Mam. I will always keep your opinion in mind.☺️☺️☺️
Yeah I hear you with the insurance is a butt
I agree. I have problems breathing with the masks on but I still wear out in public. I just try to not go out unless it's necessary
Tell me about it!
It wasn't an easy process tho, it took me years til I figured out how.
Well glad you did
I'm sure you make a good impression on others
I guess I do most of the times.
That's really awesome
Based on some of the answers too my questions, I think I have my work cut out for me. I'd like too think that I can protect American interests with something other than an M16. It's ironic that I reject firearms in dealing with corruption in law enforcement, while teaching marksmanship with military weapons too police officers where I now live. It's weird, training too go too war with a police department too far gone too save, while training cops in a different city too defend themselves against such mercenary cops. They follow the lead of that Terrible Herbst loser, who's idea of keeping the piece was banging head's together, not caring who started what. If most people don't believe bad times are coming, than I can't convince them too prepare.
Oh they coming all right.. We ain't seen nothing yet.. That was child's play
I think a lot of people are turning a warning issued by me or someone else as a self fullfilling prophecy by reading a crazy story I have posted and dismissing it as nonsense. Myself, and a lot of U. S. service men and woman are still alive today because I did my job under honorific conditions, keeping our CO constantly informed about troop movements, relaying orders and updating engagement status as decisions were made thousands of miles away that we had too enforce. I don't have my old shortwave radio equipment anymore. Don't need them. This little dumbphone is uploaded with everything I need too use the equipment have for all kinds of information acquisition and transfer. If I have too, I'll answer police use of force with military use of force. There are good cops I'm training in marksmanship now who just might have my back if it hits the fan here. If I'm delusional, my distinction begins and ends at the Clarke County (Las Vegas) lines. Mental illness isn't specific too jurisdictional boundaries, is it?
But you're a good writer, so don't overstress about that
What can i do artists are always wondering if their work is really good. Lol
You got nothing to worry about 👍🙂
thanks BBB *hugs* 💓🌹🌹
With everything I see/read on here can't say as I blame you. I was never that way in a relationship before, but I didn't have to worry about if they were online chatting or sexting or videoing with other females. Now I think I'd be worried if I could trust that cuz know too many people that's happened to
Thanks for understanding. It has happened to me
Sorry to hear that 💜
Thank you. It is life I guess. Thanks again
Yeah I been there..
I'm always in there under it with a torch light. I even wake up thinking about it hahah
Yeah that might be slightly obsessive lol
Hopefully you find soon 🙏
Aww why is that?
There are over one million things in life to stress about. Did I do too much? Did I do enough? Am I where I need to be in life? What am I working towards? What is anyone working towards? The list goes on...
You gonna give yourself a heart attack stressing about all that... Don't stress yourself too much that you can't enjoy the little things in life.. The rest will work itself out.. You got this 👍💜🙂
Aw man don't mention that. Mine really needs to be done.. Thanks for reminding me 😝 lolol
I hate doing mine
Well, I'm only half human 😂
Oh that could be interesting 😜