so i think u should try to find a way to look at that past and say u survived it. u know it isn't gonna kill u now and maybe u are more prepared the second time around, should shit hit the fan, that at least this time u brought an umbrella. u know u can go down two paths here. u develop the trust issues and u get so afraid of being hurt again that u end up pushing everyone away trying to make ur life as safe as possible. and thats like an athlete who never quite managed to recover their mind from an injury. their body recovered but their mind didn't. and they will never quite have that stardom they once had. they blew their chances being more afraid than ever of being hurt again. or they can pick themselves back up, recover, and be even less afraid than before. not reckless but less afraid, not more. then they might go on to become a bigger star than ever before
I went down the path of trust issues... and I’m afraid of being hurt again.
hard 2 recover from. but i mean a start is a practical observation that u probably already know. people with trust issues tend to ward others away. so its like a lose-lose proposition like playing poker where u fold every hand and just slowly bleed away all ur chips. i really think it helps to just gradually let that sink in more and more into the way u think. but maybe u can also do little rituals to overcome trust issues. i mean it definitely helps not to jump into relationships when you are afraid of being hurt. u can move slowly, at ur own pace. and u can seek pro help if you need it
I’mIn my first proper relationship but I have focus on myself to recover I understand where your coming from, I been pushing people away who have hurt me or don’t respond back to my text within a week. I need to overcome.. the fear. I did survive being hurt in the past.
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I’m in my first proper relationship.. I don’t trust a lot of people.
Oh well congrats.. dont make sudden gestures as yet wait til 2 months before u do that.. u dont want him to use ur body
Thank you, I been with my boyfriend for 107 days, 3 months 15 days. I was talking about my old friends who hurt me were nasty to me..
I had these old friends who were coursing trouble not that long ago their was a lot of drama I didn’t trust them..
There not ur friends if u dont trust them love
I’m glad I got rid of them 3 than.
No hug. *walks away head down dragging my teddy bear*
Thanks for your help.
Those 3 people I got rid of are bisexual that’s why they were coursing problems.
They're gone so I guess having one friend is ik
I still have 9-11 friends. 🙂 which is better than having 20 fake people.
I have 6 friends
Wow As I get older my friendship circle will get smaller.