Is it bad that I'm 17 and still don't drink or smoke like everyone else my age?

Question

I have thanatophobia ( its the fear of death__ I don't ever want to drink because I've seen on the news that it can kill you... I don't want to risk that.. but I'm also very curious, I have never been drunk in my life or drank alchohol, its very tempting when mum or my brother asks me if I want some, but I just can't I'm so scared. As for smoking, its the same, firstly I hate fire and 2nd I don't wanna die, is this okay? a lot of my friends do it. On top of that, I'm scared of learning how to drive because I'm scared I'll die in a car crash, and I'm scared to have sex with someone because I'm scared of stds, is this all okay? or should I stop being a wuss... Instead of smoking or alcohol, I get my happiness from watching cartoons like spongebob and stuff, is that okay?

Answer 1

thegirlfromthething | 293 opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

First of all, not all people your age are drinking and smoking. It’s not unusual to be a teenager who abstains from those things and you need to do some research to get over your phobia. It’s possible to protect yourself while engaging in risk activities and you can’t go through life never doing anything because you could die. That doesn’t mean try everything no matter how dangerous whether you want to or not, but don’t let yourself overreact and become paralyzed by fear. It’s fine to not drink or smoke because those things are unhealthy for you, but don’t be so dramatic about it.

Answer 2

call_me_scar | 3.7K opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

As some whos done both those things and doesn't believe I have some afterlife thing waiting for me forcing me to live everyday like my last I gotta say if you choose to live a sober life all your life that's absolutely fine theirs nothing wrong with that but if you truly want to experience those things with this condition of yours (which is nothing to be ashamed of by the way) the best thing I can suggest is to do what I do when I have anxiety and need to talk to someone just turn of your brain go into auto pilot mode and you take the shots and or hits also if u are afraid of fire I suggest vapes they hit fast, theirs no fire involved if u get the smok brand, no smell and u can do it anywhere. I used one in a golden coral bathroom to get the munchies while at the buffet lol as for the car crash thing your still control of your body I've also been stoned/drunk at a party with my friends and they wanted to go driving and I wanted to stay back in fear of what could happen

Answer 3

MrOracle | 3.7K opinions shared on Other topic.

Master

Smoking and drinking are bad for you (and potentially deadly), plus they're very expensive habits to get into, so it's very smart to avoid them. Your friends, and a lot of people your age, just aren't very smart about things like that, and it will cost many of them dearly. In most cases, the bill won't come due for many years, but a few may pay a very high price - even death - within the next few years. There were 3 alcohol-related deaths during my senior year of high school alone, for example.

Honestly, it sounds like you are a bit behind on overall maturity anyway, which isn't a terrible thing, and so you aren't ready for those things anyway. You'll get there, but, again, you are wise to avoid smoking, alcohol, and drugs entirely. It might not seem "cool", but you're likely to be happier in the long run.

Answer 4

Paolaa988 | 55 opinions shared on Other topic.

Xper 7

No i wish i could be 17 and have a do over again :( i didn't smoke my first time till 19 actually and didn't drink till like 18. You're fine trust me. Dont let the whole age factor and peer pressure get you down it'll only push you into bad experiences.

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I-have-a-biscuit | 112 opinions shared on Other topic.

Xper 6

No phobia is ok. Is it ok that you're being safe? Yes, as long as it doesn't hinder your life. Is it ok if you don't smoke or drink? It is very ok, my dream one day is for drugs to not be used or needed anymore

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SjE78 | 658 opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

no not bad actually and well done... you are one of the sensible ones

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MissDawn7961 | 711 opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

no it is not bad that U do not do these disgusting things ! keep up not doing them ! thanks

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art84 | 1K opinions shared on Other topic.

Yoda

I don't smoke but have drank alcohol when I was in my 20's and it tasted terrible. I don't drink alcohol but was curious how a Heinchen beer tasted like.

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OddBeMe | 830 opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

No, but don’t mythologize it. Liquor doesn’t auto lead to death. Smoking a joint doesn’t do much the first time. Don’t be afraid of it. It’s good you’re being careful though. Just be practical.

Answer 10

Anonymous

good. you should never start. there's a reason doctors always ask if you smoke or drink when you go in... because they know it can cause problems. The serious health risk isn't worth the temporary "fun" in my opinion.

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Aiko_E_Lara | 2.5K opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

Im really confused how smoking and drinking is a good thing. I don't even smoke and drink (drink regularly)

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iFarted | 2.2K opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

Good, keep doing you. You don't have to follow the crowd.

Answer 13

Newhead

Xper 6

No, it is great, keep it up. Good for you.

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Avicenna | 1.9K opinions shared on Other topic.

Master

No, it’s smart to avoid that stuff

Answer 15

rjroy3 | 1.7K opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

1. Not bad at all. If

rjroy3

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Accidental post.

It's not bad at all. If you're going to start anything. Just drink alcohol like at a friends place or a party. Don't waste your time smoking.

Most people who start smoking in high-school to look cool are the ones who get addicted and struggle to quit in their 20s. You waste a lot of money. It doesn't taste good. Guys like myself don't like the taste or smell when kissing you.

The nicotine itch you get will annoy others around you because you NEED to go outside to smoke again instead of just chilling. Imagine going on a date. Struggling to hold out to smoke a cigarette. Not being able to fully enjoy yourself because you're physically struggling to smoke.

Then if you break and smoke that cigarette, now your breath smells and tastes shitty unless he's drunk or smoking too.

Answer 16

rjroy3

Accidental post.

It's not bad at all. If you're going to start anything. Just drink alcohol like at a friends place or a party. Don't waste your time smoking.

Most people who start smoking in high-school to look cool are the ones who get addicted and struggle to quit in their 20s. You waste a lot of money. It doesn't taste good. Guys like myself don't like the taste or smell when kissing you.

The nicotine itch you get will annoy others around you because you NEED to go outside to smoke again instead of just chilling. Imagine going on a date. Struggling to hold out to smoke a cigarette. Not being able to fully enjoy yourself because you're physically struggling to smoke.

Then if you break and smoke that cigarette, now your breath smells and tastes shitty unless he's drunk or smoking too.

Answer 17

ayomanwya

Xper 3

It’s great that you don’t

Answer 18

In_Trance | 828 opinions shared on Other topic.

Master

no, not bad

Answer 19

Dinosaursandanime65 | 847 opinions shared on Other topic.

Explorer

No. No. No. no.

Answer 20

gandolph3

Yoda

it is good

Answer 21

Nachowedgie | 1.9K opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

Uh no

Is it bad that I'm 17 and still don't drink or smoke like everyone else my age?

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