Would you give an ex street hustler a chance at dating?

Question

i feel like my past has really effected my dating life cause its not just the things you do but also the way it effects you mentally, like paranoia, i feel like no girl would want to date a guy that feels like he has to carry a gun everywhere he goes, its also why i dont really open up to anyone, it just chases people away, so personally would you? 🤔

Answer 1

Paolaa988 | 55 opinions shared on Other topic.

Xper 7

Personally, it wouldn't turn me off as i have a past myself but i think we all deserve a chance as long as you didn't kill or abuse a girl i dont see the problem honestly. I understand it must be difficult to open up because of how people judge so much and stereotype but remember what you overcome and learned is what counts, not the mistakes in the past! :)

chriscdi

5 d
thats not how everyone else sees it
Paolaa988

5 d
Sadly😔 its a shame.. but i believe there's someome out there for you who'll see the good in you and be willing to look forward. I mean my past is different but it's still the kind people judge and some wouldn't find okay but just work on being the best version of yourself and if a girl can't see your potential then she isn't worth it. A lot of people have a past and if they say they dont, their lying.
chriscdi

5 d
sorry, I don't know how i missed this, anyways there's some people that got it easy out there tho but i see what you mean

Answer 2

chriscdi

thats not how everyone else sees it

Answer 3

Paolaa988

Sadly😔 its a shame.. but i believe there's someome out there for you who'll see the good in you and be willing to look forward. I mean my past is different but it's still the kind people judge and some wouldn't find okay but just work on being the best version of yourself and if a girl can't see your potential then she isn't worth it. A lot of people have a past and if they say they dont, their lying.

Answer 4

chriscdi

sorry, I don't know how i missed this, anyways there's some people that got it easy out there tho but i see what you mean

Answer 5

Alyssa11 | 146 opinions shared on Other topic.

Explorer

I did because I thought I was falling in love and then I had to drive on our first date because his car had "issues". Later I found out it was because it was identified by the police for drug dealing... smh why did I do this to myself! Teenage me was so dumb LOL

chriscdi

3 d
well thats dating a street hustler my question is for ex street hustlers meaning he is out of the game, he is living as peacefully as he can resisting to break the rules lol
Alyssa11

3 d
He told me he was out and then when we talked about it he said he could never get out. So the issue here is how would we know if that person really is done?
chriscdi

3 d
drug dealing is in the low tho, there's barely any risks in it, if someone has crazy stories, trust me he would want to get out, it sounds to me like he didn't want to get out, can't blame him tho cause plugging is easy money with low risks, you'll normally know by his stories
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Alyssa11

2 d
Knowing him that’s probably true! Lol
chriscdi

2 d
you can't leave the life only if you are deep in that life, selling drugs isn't deep
Alyssa11

2 d
He’s such a liar honestly. Making it out to be like he was an angel and a Prince Charming coming into my life lol. Something to laugh when I look back now.
chriscdi

2 d
that my friend is what we call a goofy around here where i live, he a goofy
Alyssa11

2 d
Very goofy!!

Answer 6

chriscdi

well thats dating a street hustler my question is for ex street hustlers meaning he is out of the game, he is living as peacefully as he can resisting to break the rules lol

Answer 7

Alyssa11

He told me he was out and then when we talked about it he said he could never get out. So the issue here is how would we know if that person really is done?

Answer 8

chriscdi

drug dealing is in the low tho, there's barely any risks in it, if someone has crazy stories, trust me he would want to get out, it sounds to me like he didn't want to get out, can't blame him tho cause plugging is easy money with low risks, you'll normally know by his stories

Answer 9

Alyssa11

Knowing him that’s probably true! Lol

Answer 10

chriscdi

you can't leave the life only if you are deep in that life, selling drugs isn't deep

Answer 11

Alyssa11

He’s such a liar honestly. Making it out to be like he was an angel and a Prince Charming coming into my life lol. Something to laugh when I look back now.

Answer 12

chriscdi

that my friend is what we call a goofy around here where i live, he a goofy

Answer 13

Alyssa11

Very goofy!!

Answer 14

belle_kai | 150 opinions shared on Other topic.

Xper 7

My ex actually used to be one but he didn't carry a gun. I think a knife. This was yearsss before me and he completely had his life changed around when I met him at 28(both 28) he was doing a good job and earning legitimate money at this point. It's possible

chriscdi

5 d
thats good to hear

Answer 15

chriscdi

thats good to hear

Answer 16

niya_2006

Xper 2

No one expects perfection
yeah you're a little messed up
everyone's a little messed up
If someone expects you to be perfect they're a little messed up in the head
Don't let your past interfere with your dating life

chriscdi

1 d
it has done plenty already 😂
niya_2006

14 h
Ok...

Answer 17

chriscdi

it has done plenty already 😂

Answer 18

niya_2006

Ok...

Answer 19

Anonymous

Well I'm into girls, but I would not based in the fact that I myself have really bad paranoia. It affects my life, and having someone else who worries a lot will make me even more anxious.

chriscdi

5 d
makes sense, or y'all can be paranoid together 😂

Answer 20

chriscdi

makes sense, or y'all can be paranoid together 😂

Answer 21

angelicina

Xper 4

There must be girls who like those kinda men so no need to worry.

chriscdi

5 d
yea the ones that are in the life themselves i guess, that would mean id have to get back into it tho and i dont want to cause there's only 2 ending and i wouldn't call them a future
angelicina

5 d
You’re only 19, don’t worry about those kinda things. You’ll be fine 💕
chriscdi

5 d
i hope you are right, thanks for the opinion by the way

Answer 22

chriscdi

yea the ones that are in the life themselves i guess, that would mean id have to get back into it tho and i dont want to cause there's only 2 ending and i wouldn't call them a future

Answer 23

angelicina

You’re only 19, don’t worry about those kinda things. You’ll be fine 💕

Answer 24

chriscdi

i hope you are right, thanks for the opinion by the way

Answer 25

Anonymous

Gotta stop and ask yourself why you feel the need to approach life like this

chriscdi

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wdym

Answer 26

chriscdi

wdym

Answer 27

nailsandhair

Xper 3

I would... but i would appreciate it if he or she would try to trust me and open up a bit so i could understand

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