Who's responsible for the rising divorce rates?

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Answer 1

btbc92 | 1.6K opinions shared on Other topic.

Master

People who refuse Godly standards, marry for wrong reasons, refuse to wait until marriage to have sex, the parents who refuse to teach their kids right, the system that doesn't care, the people that don't care, and those who marry for the wrong REASONS. Those who believe in divorce but LOVE supposedly the ones they married. Unless your so-called forced into a marriage, nobody threatens you to marry somebody you don't want to be with for life. I do not get it. And people want to know why I'm single?

1. Hardly any man is waiting for marriage to have sex.
2. Many masturbates and watch porn.
3. They get sexual with you on dates.
4. Expect sex on dates but don't want to wait a year for marriage or get married.
5. They don't want legal marriage, but screw you over in a so-called civil one.
6. If you get pregnant it's your fault and not his baby. MAYBE.
7. They feel obligated to marry you because they're either that desperate for sex or something else. Not because they really love you.
8. They're dating history and poor friendships with women says a lot.
9. Once married they're not really happy.
10. If you wait until marriage to give your virginity whose to say he won't turn to porn or masturbate because he doesn't respect you even if you do have sex with him regularly?
11. He looks at other women too?
12. The biggest one overall, though I can list more, is that HE wants to divorce you. Because he's unHAPPY.

It's one thing when you being abused and feel in danger. it's ANOTHER to hope to really be with a person, and they're not looking for anything really serious if your struggling or have other conflicts that a couple should work through. The primary issue is selfishness usually on both sides. But I have heard so many women leave men for other men or their divorcing because they were already cheating on the men. Sadly that overshadows the good women who leave for objective reasons such as abuse and cheating from the men being the bigger factor. I believe couples should be married for life as God intended. If you're going to fool around, stay single. You don't want to marry your dating partner, set them FREE. And let them marry somebody else. That's all.

Chestersky

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I like how you just rag on men, like women don’t whore themself about freely. Who hurt you? Lmao
btbc92

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@Chestersky I'm not dating a woman, am I? Did I said that women don't whore either or you that focus on what I had said on men? Nobody hurt me. But I am not dating or marrying and there aren't a lot of good men out there. The world hurts me when I see so many people suffering and nobody wants to really stop it. Jesus wants to stop all of this yet hardly anybody wants to go to Christ and God either. So don't ask me who hurt me. Look at self.
Chestersky

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Oh god. I’ve not time for your nonsense. Argue with yourself. Cheers!
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btbc92

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You miss all of those parts where I had said:

"People who refuse Godly standards, marry for wrong reasons, refuse to wait until marriage to have sex, the parents who refuse to teach their kids right, the system that doesn't care, the people that don't care, and those who marry for the wrong REASONS. Those who believe in divorce but LOVE supposedly the ones they married. Unless your so-called forced into a marriage, nobody threatens you to marry somebody you don't want to be with for life. I do not get it. And people want to know why I'm single?"

And when I said this: "It's one thing when you being abused and feel in danger. it's ANOTHER to hope to really be with a person, and they're not looking for anything really serious if your struggling or have other conflicts that a couple should work through. The primary issue is selfishness usually on both sides. But I have heard so many women leave men for other men or their divorcing because they were already cheating on the men. Sadly that overshadows the good women who leave for objective reasons such as abuse and cheating from the men being the bigger factor. I believe couples should be married for life as God intended. If you're going to fool around, stay single. You don't want to marry your dating partner, set them FREE. And let them marry somebody else. That's all." This is what happens when you don't have Godly standards. A MAN who is Godly would not want a woman who isn't Godly or and is of Godly character. So enough hypocricy.
btbc92

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There doesn't have to be any argument. Your biased because you hate women but think I hate men. Nothing I say is nonsense. And I am not arguing with myself. I want peace in my life and I don't need such men who don't want to listen like yourself speak what you speak by refuse to listen. Your behavior is why divorce rates are so high and good women are TIRED of it.

Answer 2

Chestersky

I like how you just rag on men, like women don’t whore themself about freely. Who hurt you? Lmao

Answer 3

btbc92

@Chestersky I'm not dating a woman, am I? Did I said that women don't whore either or you that focus on what I had said on men? Nobody hurt me. But I am not dating or marrying and there aren't a lot of good men out there. The world hurts me when I see so many people suffering and nobody wants to really stop it. Jesus wants to stop all of this yet hardly anybody wants to go to Christ and God either. So don't ask me who hurt me. Look at self.

Answer 4

Chestersky

Oh god. I’ve not time for your nonsense. Argue with yourself. Cheers!

Answer 5

btbc92

You miss all of those parts where I had said:

"People who refuse Godly standards, marry for wrong reasons, refuse to wait until marriage to have sex, the parents who refuse to teach their kids right, the system that doesn't care, the people that don't care, and those who marry for the wrong REASONS. Those who believe in divorce but LOVE supposedly the ones they married. Unless your so-called forced into a marriage, nobody threatens you to marry somebody you don't want to be with for life. I do not get it. And people want to know why I'm single?"

And when I said this: "It's one thing when you being abused and feel in danger. it's ANOTHER to hope to really be with a person, and they're not looking for anything really serious if your struggling or have other conflicts that a couple should work through. The primary issue is selfishness usually on both sides. But I have heard so many women leave men for other men or their divorcing because they were already cheating on the men. Sadly that overshadows the good women who leave for objective reasons such as abuse and cheating from the men being the bigger factor. I believe couples should be married for life as God intended. If you're going to fool around, stay single. You don't want to marry your dating partner, set them FREE. And let them marry somebody else. That's all." This is what happens when you don't have Godly standards. A MAN who is Godly would not want a woman who isn't Godly or and is of Godly character. So enough hypocricy.

Answer 6

btbc92

There doesn't have to be any argument. Your biased because you hate women but think I hate men. Nothing I say is nonsense. And I am not arguing with myself. I want peace in my life and I don't need such men who don't want to listen like yourself speak what you speak by refuse to listen. Your behavior is why divorce rates are so high and good women are TIRED of it.

Answer 7

MORPHEUS_12 | 808 opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

Both because they think having children will make them closer. Then they put so much time into raising the yard ape that they lose sight of each other. Moral of this story, don't have kids.

Answer 8

codyccc | 4.9K opinions shared on Other topic.

Guru

Technology especially Medical science when marriage was invented in 2350 bc the average life expectancy was 19 so marriage was a 3- 10 years commitment now days the average life expectancy is 72.6 years and average age of marriage is 29.6 so its a 43 year commitment

Answer 9

BigHomieNasty

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People that are unwilling to take the time to understand their partner. It can be male or female.

Answer 10

genericname85 | 7.9K opinions shared on Other topic.

Master

the people obviously xD cause the people ware who divorce.

Answer 11

KrakenAttackin | 486 opinions shared on Other topic.

Yoda

Women. Women file for 80+% of all divorces. Divorce laws badly favor women and incentivize women to abuse men legally, financially, and socially.

Answer 12

Paul09 | 166 opinions shared on Other topic.

Explorer

Religion.. It tells you how to live your life. People rush into it. People are selfish a-holes. They can not make up their minds.

Answer 13

Anonymous

Eighty percent of divorces are files by women. That's not to say that men aren't at fault in some of those cases, but the number one reason marriages fails is a lack of commitment. You do the math.

btbc92

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70%. Not 80%. Please get the facts straight.
Inquisitive3

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People don't randomly file for divorce. They do it because someone cheated, didn't step up and do their part, watched porn all day, didn't communicate, etc. So who is really responsible?
Opinion Owner

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@btbc92 Depends on which study you choose to believe, but either way it is an indisputable fact that women file the vast majority of divorces.

@Inquisitive3 As I said, men are certainly responsible in some case. But when you consider the fact that a lack of commitment is the number one reason for divorce, and women initiate the vast majority of them, trying to blame that on men is kind of silly. If you also consider the fact that women cheat more than men during their 20s, and after that the cheating gap between men and women averages 7% - 9%, it seems silly to suggest women file soooo many more divorces than men because men are cheating. I mean let's have a little honesty here.
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btbc92

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Most studies have said 70. It is not 80. And the numbers shift due to variables every year.

@Inquisitive 3 is correct about this. Most men do not communicate, especially depressed and toxic men who grew up in dysfunctional households. My father is the same way. My friend ex husbands were the same way. Most women complain about what men refuse to do. Most are passive-aggressive, they refuse to talk they walk away in the middle of a conversation, slam doors, give the silent treatment, and the whole host of lists. If my entire parents' marriage before my mother's death for 23 years of this I've seen. I can guarantee you my mom would not have divorced for no irrational reason! Neither did my friends who divorced. Like a marriage speaker and author have said. Most marriages who have those issues ALWAYS had that issue BEFORE they got married. No. Women do not cheat more in their 20's. Cheaters cheat regardless of sex, gender, age, culture, religion, etc. They file because they can't stand it anymore. If the man refuses to budge the woman is always screwed even after divorce. But most women do not WANT a divorce. Only golddiggers do what you're talking about and that is nearly a small margin. The problem is the men want them for wives, marry them, and then shocked they bopping in bed with other men. Not a SHOCKER. Women like me they find boring, yet I would NEVER cheat and would stay till death and old age. HUH.
Inquisitive3

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Cheating isn't the only reason for a divorce. I know you hate women and want to blame them but if women are filing for divorce there is a reason for it. The guy cheating is just one reason.
Opinion Owner

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@btbc92 @Inquisitive3 OMG, so much bullshit and dishonesty in your wall of text, I'm not going to waste time responding to all of it. But yes, women do cheat more than men in their 20s.
Inquisitive3

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You completely missed the point, it flew right over your head but that is expected from someone that hates women. You're hopeless, and/or stupid, and btbc wasted her time trying to explain things. I won't because you're too much of a coward to even show your username.
Opinion Owner

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@Inquisitive3 Firstly, I love women. It's a giant cop out on your part to just throw that nonsense rather than actually responding to what I wrote. I can understand you being defensive considering I am calling your gender out for their bad behavior but that does not mean I don't love women. Men have their problems too, and women discussing those problems does not mean they hate men. That's just dumb.
Inquisitive3

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You're full of shit. You might like porn women, you don't love women. I'm done with you, block me by the way, I don't want to interact with you again.
Opinion Owner

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@Inquisitive3 Have you always struggled so badly with criticism? I would think that would make your life pretty difficult at times.
Opinion Owner

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@Inquisitive3 And no, I am not much of a porn watcher and I've had a lot of good women in my life. I don't hate women at all. I'm a big fan of good women.

But women are not perfect and some of them make mistakes, just like men. It does no one any good to just ignore those mistakes and pretend they don't happen.

Today the institution of marriage is in serious trouble for multiple reasons, and one of the biggest reasons is a lack of commitment on the part of both men and women, but women are especially guilty of that today. It's a serious problem that should be talked about openly. I'm sorry if it makes you uncomfortable or angry, but that's not a valid reason not discuss it.
Inquisitive3

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I didn't even read your comments so don't waste my time you blue monster. Block me.
Opinion Owner

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@Inquisitive3 Of course you didn't. lmao
Inquisitive3

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You couldn't comprehend nor acknowledge what I wrote so I will return the same to you. Get lost now. Scram and block me you vermin.
Opinion Owner

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@Inquisitive3 I understood it perfectly. You're just wrong.
Opinion Owner

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@Inquisitive3 I certainly hope you are not really 25. Your maturity is on par with a prepubescent so that would just be sad.
Inquisitive3

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No, you didn't understand anything I wrote. You're a piece of sht coward, f off.
Opinion Owner

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@Inquisitive3 What you wrote was simple, and I understood it completely. As I said, you were just wrong. You seem intent on throwing around childish insults rather than having a discussion. You're clearly just butt hurt and too immature to reply with anything of value so I will grant you your wish and say goodbye.
Inquisitive3

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Don't forget to block me. You missed the point entirely.
Opinion Owner

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@Inquisitive3 No, I didn't miss anything. You were just wrong. Go block yourself.
Inquisitive3

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Yeah, you kept on and on about cheating even though we brought up other things. I can't block you because you're a coward and hid... what are you so afraid of ahole? Block me.

Answer 14

btbc92

70%. Not 80%. Please get the facts straight.

Answer 15

Inquisitive3

People don't randomly file for divorce. They do it because someone cheated, didn't step up and do their part, watched porn all day, didn't communicate, etc. So who is really responsible?

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

@btbc92 Depends on which study you choose to believe, but either way it is an indisputable fact that women file the vast majority of divorces.

@Inquisitive3 As I said, men are certainly responsible in some case. But when you consider the fact that a lack of commitment is the number one reason for divorce, and women initiate the vast majority of them, trying to blame that on men is kind of silly. If you also consider the fact that women cheat more than men during their 20s, and after that the cheating gap between men and women averages 7% - 9%, it seems silly to suggest women file soooo many more divorces than men because men are cheating. I mean let's have a little honesty here.

Answer 17

btbc92

Most studies have said 70. It is not 80. And the numbers shift due to variables every year.

@Inquisitive 3 is correct about this. Most men do not communicate, especially depressed and toxic men who grew up in dysfunctional households. My father is the same way. My friend ex husbands were the same way. Most women complain about what men refuse to do. Most are passive-aggressive, they refuse to talk they walk away in the middle of a conversation, slam doors, give the silent treatment, and the whole host of lists. If my entire parents' marriage before my mother's death for 23 years of this I've seen. I can guarantee you my mom would not have divorced for no irrational reason! Neither did my friends who divorced. Like a marriage speaker and author have said. Most marriages who have those issues ALWAYS had that issue BEFORE they got married. No. Women do not cheat more in their 20's. Cheaters cheat regardless of sex, gender, age, culture, religion, etc. They file because they can't stand it anymore. If the man refuses to budge the woman is always screwed even after divorce. But most women do not WANT a divorce. Only golddiggers do what you're talking about and that is nearly a small margin. The problem is the men want them for wives, marry them, and then shocked they bopping in bed with other men. Not a SHOCKER. Women like me they find boring, yet I would NEVER cheat and would stay till death and old age. HUH.

Answer 18

Inquisitive3

Cheating isn't the only reason for a divorce. I know you hate women and want to blame them but if women are filing for divorce there is a reason for it. The guy cheating is just one reason.

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

@btbc92 @Inquisitive3 OMG, so much bullshit and dishonesty in your wall of text, I'm not going to waste time responding to all of it. But yes, women do cheat more than men in their 20s.
Who's responsible for the rising divorce rates?

Answer 20

Inquisitive3

You completely missed the point, it flew right over your head but that is expected from someone that hates women. You're hopeless, and/or stupid, and btbc wasted her time trying to explain things. I won't because you're too much of a coward to even show your username.

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

@Inquisitive3 Firstly, I love women. It's a giant cop out on your part to just throw that nonsense rather than actually responding to what I wrote. I can understand you being defensive considering I am calling your gender out for their bad behavior but that does not mean I don't love women. Men have their problems too, and women discussing those problems does not mean they hate men. That's just dumb.

Answer 22

Inquisitive3

You're full of shit. You might like porn women, you don't love women. I'm done with you, block me by the way, I don't want to interact with you again.

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

@Inquisitive3 Have you always struggled so badly with criticism? I would think that would make your life pretty difficult at times.

Answer 24

Opinion Owner

@Inquisitive3 And no, I am not much of a porn watcher and I've had a lot of good women in my life. I don't hate women at all. I'm a big fan of good women.

But women are not perfect and some of them make mistakes, just like men. It does no one any good to just ignore those mistakes and pretend they don't happen.

Today the institution of marriage is in serious trouble for multiple reasons, and one of the biggest reasons is a lack of commitment on the part of both men and women, but women are especially guilty of that today. It's a serious problem that should be talked about openly. I'm sorry if it makes you uncomfortable or angry, but that's not a valid reason not discuss it.

Answer 25

Inquisitive3

I didn't even read your comments so don't waste my time you blue monster. Block me.

Answer 26

Opinion Owner

@Inquisitive3 Of course you didn't. lmao

Answer 27

Inquisitive3

You couldn't comprehend nor acknowledge what I wrote so I will return the same to you. Get lost now. Scram and block me you vermin.

Answer 28

Opinion Owner

@Inquisitive3 I understood it perfectly. You're just wrong.

Answer 29

Opinion Owner

@Inquisitive3 I certainly hope you are not really 25. Your maturity is on par with a prepubescent so that would just be sad.

Answer 30

Inquisitive3

No, you didn't understand anything I wrote. You're a piece of sht coward, f off.

Answer 31

Opinion Owner

@Inquisitive3 What you wrote was simple, and I understood it completely. As I said, you were just wrong. You seem intent on throwing around childish insults rather than having a discussion. You're clearly just butt hurt and too immature to reply with anything of value so I will grant you your wish and say goodbye.

Answer 32

Inquisitive3

Don't forget to block me. You missed the point entirely.

Answer 33

Opinion Owner

@Inquisitive3 No, I didn't miss anything. You were just wrong. Go block yourself.

Answer 34

Inquisitive3

Yeah, you kept on and on about cheating even though we brought up other things. I can't block you because you're a coward and hid... what are you so afraid of ahole? Block me.

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Don-__-Don

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The people who get divorces of course.

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josephinelcajon | 81 opinions shared on Other topic.

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Society in every way shape and form

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Skankhunt | 75 opinions shared on Other topic.

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Relationship/marriage problems.

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Nazgol

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Porn and
Government

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MissDawn7961 | 714 opinions shared on Other topic.

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cheaters R ! thanks

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Anonymous

The people getting divorce.

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JesterRose

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Married people.

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Mamabear123

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Godlessness

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casserolie

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the children

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