Good luck with that 👍👍🙂🤗
The first 3-👍👍👏The last one, I'd like to say don't give up but I can certainly understand feeling that way. I honestly feel that way a lot myself
I want to say don't give up, but people these days don't seem to be the same. There's always been bad apples around but think they were more few and far between... But more and more people these days seem to see no problem with using someone for sex, cheating is okay, sexting with other people is okay, the minute there's a bump in the relationship, they on to the next... So I understand, it's why haven't been in a relationship since my hubby died 7 years ago.
I thought you were at a good weight now? But yeah I'm still not where I want to be weight wise, and even if get there, I'll never have a flat stomach, haven't had one since I had that surgery for tubal pregnancy when I was in my early 20's🤷🏼♀️
I mean I am, but I'm not at the weight I want to be if that makes sense? You ever have a set weight you want to hit even though everyone says, "You look fine?" That's where I'm at right now, haha. I have this set number I want to hit before I'm somewhat satisfied with my body. That and no matter how many crunches, cutting carbs, or much I exercise? My abs will never be flat- I call it the "pudge" now, LOL. It's not big, but still... guess who's not wearing a two piece or anything skin tight anytime soon?
Lol sand yes I do know that last set weight. When I took off the weight the year I was going to have back surgery (2005) I set smaller goals and then when achieved reset goal, lost all but the last 20lb... Years of walking at the track with two neighbors, exercise nothing for years and years. I got to point just be glad you've kept the weight off, maintained. But then in 2016 was walking probably 16 miles for my job and took that last 20 off and kept it off till last January when started gaining
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Yeah sometimes have to say goodbye to what's not good for us
Know that feeling, but still went through the torture this morning... I gotta take back off the weight I gained or die trying 😱
Sorry to hear that. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate...
Exactly!! So true!!
+5 muffins 😋🧁
Lol all that sugar's not good for you.. You can have two 🧁🧁
Okay miss brains, i'll have 2 and a bite to your forehead 😬 so i regulate between the sugar and salt 😄
Ahaha aren't you so funny
I guess so 🤡
You mean you think so 😛😛🤣
I don't identify with either of those labels.
How can someone be defined by a label, right? A label presumes that you agree with everything that people in that group think and do. It also separates one from people who aren't in that group.
Right! just like you can not be totally for someone but still acknowledge the good they did... People let there like/dislike of a party or person take over their common sense smh
Agreed. Those labels have become synonymous with political parties. I don't like either party but have good friends who identify as liberal as well as conservative. I disagree with them on some things but find much that I agree with.My definition of "liberal" is similar to this: 1. Possessing or manifesting a free and generous heart. 2. Appropriate and/or fitting a broad and enlightened mind. 3. Free from narrowness, bigotry or bondage to authority or creed. 4. Any person who advocates liberty of thought, speech or action.I've had conservative friends say that describes their attitude. But this does not seem to describe the attitudes of what passes for liberalism these days.
Well least you sold it and can concentrate on your writing
Yeah and the money paid for my cat, so it worked out well
Yeah, Single not so bad, considering the alternative of what people consider relationships these days, or think is acceptable behavior in a relationship these days.. Yeah, no thanks.. Didn't become single by choice (widowed), but stay single by choice
@BrainsbeforebeautyI agree with you. It seems to be the only relationships that are available are dysfunctional ones. A healthy relationship takes a lot of energy, time, and effort. And in a lot of cases money - for example, seeing a relationship therapist. No one has the time to invest in one.
👍👍👍 perfection doesn't exist, not in people anyways or in life
🤣🤣 it's really not funny. Sorry, I know exactly what you mean. I guess maybe because some women do do those things, and some guys seem to be caught on that all females are the same mindset 🙄 But I hear you 💯I don't sext and don't want no dick pics
Oh I can imagine... I hope you do find what makes you happy in life
Right!! I know someone like that and yeah can't deal with those types
Sometimes it's necessary if the toxicity is coming from own family. Some people can and do change, but sadly more times than not they don't, they just cut a little deeper with each chance they're given
i know what you mean. If i had allowed her to further be in my life, i would have ended up very much like her.
Glad you made the right choice, what was best for you
Why don't do politics these days... It had been that way for quite some time
So sorry to hear that... How's your back now? I know how a bad back is, I had back surgery in 2005
I'm ambulatory and getting stronger every day. I can never run again... but I can do lot's of other stuff to stay busy and fit
I couldn't run good even before the back surgery (big boobs 🤣)
But glad it's getting better
( . ) ( . )?
But isn't that it's own form of giving up still 🤔
No because i try to make stuff work but i dont wana be the one to call it quits. So ima let them do it.
Aww sorry to hear that
Well hopefully you have success with that!
Fingers crossed but I feel like it won't be much different from finding a job, not meeting enough qualifications 😂
Well that's the whole issue isn't it... Dating, love should be about feelings, not qualifications🤷🏼♀️
I just hope I'll have the opportunity to share feelings with someone
That's good! Family means more than money 👍🙂
Same !! Give me ferrets & dogs over feckin' people anytime... send 'em all to Port Talbot & Swansea !!
Oh I agree with you there 💯
@Brainsbeforebeauty I'm not big with appearance, all my ex-girlfriends were notno beauty queen but I did at one time love them both but things didn't happen andthere is always a reason it happened
Sorry to hear that
Then that's their problem not yours!!
Ducks as in guys? Or dicks as in penises? 🤣🤣🤣
Oh no, I am super self-conscious about what penises think of me.
Lololol they think? 🤣🤣
Those things have a MIND OF THEIR OWN!
Ahahaha you killing me 🤣🤣🤣 you ain't lying tho lololol
I’m starting to see a tread with the thirty year old women
Aww sorry that must of sucked
You're so young yet... That may change some day
I hope so too mam but I am not counting on it.As long as I have people who need me and I care about I am happy.
Sometimes it happens when you least expect it
How is your daughter mam?Is she ok now?
Yes, thanks for asking 🤗
Glad to know
I understand that
From the things you've said on here you deserve better anyways
I said a lot of things some probaly I dont mean.
Were you any good?
Actually to be honest, I was pretty good, was able to figure the noted to songs by just a couple listens. Played quite a few songs. But got bored after college online classes started.
Well maybe try getting back into it
I basically am slumped with college work plus I've been working on my book, so that takes up most of my time.Maybe I'll get back into it later.
I can't lecture, cuz in some ways I've done the same... And only you can decide not to give up on yourself
I need to give up the smoking but I get panicked at just the idea
It was not easy. Went through very severe withdrawal symptoms. I still get cravings now and then and have to fight hard. Sometimes I think may be mot worth torturing myself, just light one!
See, that's how I'd be... Just thinking about quitting makes me light up
I can relate!
Well, I think it's great you had the willpower/control to quit!!
Thank you. But it was not will power so much but fear of death. I was a chain smoker and my doctor showed me my lung x-ray that was starting ro form black spots.
I'd hate to see what mine must look like. I been smoking since I was 15 and I'm 48, do the math.. Not good
Hope you can gradually reduce it. For your sake, not any one else's. One thing I can tell you, I'm not like a lot of recovering smokers. I don't judge because deep down I'm still a smoker. I remember those feelings when you take the first drag in the morning and I'm not ashamed to say that I miss it,
I'd be the same... I'd probably have to give up coffee too, cuz I need that first coffee and cig together or it's just not the same
I can't give up coffee. I love beer and if I had to give up either beer or coffee, I'll give up beer but not coffee. I guess I do have an addictive personality. I think I misspoke when I was granted a wish, instead of saying "Addicting" personality I said addictive.
🤣🤣🤣 yeah I used to say I thought I had that too the addictive, not addicting as well lolol... I like whiskey over beer tho..
I like a good whisky as well!
Me too, but my budget these days, it was more cheap whiskey lol
But you didn't give up on your girlfriend, so not total quitter
It's true not even gonna lie
Yeah you can't fix someone...
🤣🤣 sorry not funny but umm kinda 🤷🏼♀️ yeah I don't do those dating sites
I hear yah
Oh yeah migraines can be bad... I drink alcohol but it usually doesn't trigger migraines for me. Severe stress was what would trigger migraines for me.
Stress will do it for me to.
Yeah, Everytime my hubby wound up in the ICU I'd get horrible migraines after a couple days
Sometimes when stop looking for it is when it happens
I guess so ~ we'll see haha
Why I was always afraid to try skiing... I learned to water ski tho when I was a teenager, least if you fall you fall in water
Tried that too - I am terrible at it
Really? I think water skiing would be easier than skiing.
I don't think you get hurt as easily, but I could never keep my balance.
Oh yeah so hear you there!!!
Especially on social media
@yofuknutz can say that again!!
Aww I'm sorry to hear that
I agree No it won't not until it's called out/ stops from all sides...
Best to find something you're both passionate about but can also build a career
I was passionate about being a psychologist, but that passion died out with only on year of college.4+ years of becoming on isn't worth It to me anymore.I honestly can't think of any job I would be passionate in anymore, guess that's what happens when you know you're working for a society that doesn't give a damn about you and will always find you easily expendable.
I can't argue with that, truth right there
It's definitely easy to feel that way these days
I've been feeling this way since years.
I been feeling that way since my hubby died 7 years ago, and my best friend that was like a mom to me barely two years later.. I just put a mask on so people don't always see it
Sorry to hear that :(
It's life, right... Sometimes life shits on you, why don't get why people shit on people, don't like itself do that enough
Seems like that more and more these days
Can i get a Amen honey
Well, I'm not much for the friends with benefits for myself, but if it works for others, then amen honey 🤣
I understand its hard yo find so will probably just stay with my hand ✋ 😁
Instead of feet it's "Hands don't fail me now"🤣🤣
Lol i nevet fail when i get started alway reach full pleasure lol
If she left, then she wasn't... Cuz someone that really loves you wouldn't leave
She was the only one I felt like I ever had a genuine connection with and I kinda just put all my tokens on that one relationship. I don’t think I have the energy to spend it on anyone else. I even tried dating people I found attractive prior to the relationship but it wasn’t sticking anymore.