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- I tried fitting in with the people who studied my major, but I didn’t felt like a real man. They are too sensitive and their sense of humor is totally cringe, so no I don’t strive to fit in. As a lot of people love me for who I am. Too hyper, energetic, charismatic and suave.
Now to strive to stand out. I wouldn’t and that’s because last time I stood out. Some unknown Latina that I never knew about, got so obsessed with me and she had her made her life work to spread false rumors about me. Sometimes I ask myself if she is obsessed with me because she met someone that looked like me and hurt her feelings and let’s not forget she a radical feminist. So yeah trying to strive to stand out will bring too many crazies to my life.1|00|0Is this still revelant? - Tbh, neither. I strive to not care about humanity or what they think. I strive to be robotic and indifferent.2|00|0Is this still revelant?
That's stupid. The first sentence I agree with but the rest makes you just sound like a hurt person. And it something I would have said at 21. I tried it. It's unsustainable. There is a much easier way to do it.
@William2198 - Interesting 🤔 I have the view that everyone is a hurt person. And that the people who say they aren't are just lying to themselves. Now, our definitions of a "hurt person" could be off, so let me know if they are. Here's the one I go by:
"Someone who has been harmed, injured, or killed as the result of a perceived crime."
Setting ages and maturity levels aside and focusing on the reasoning behind it:
Though it does play a part, I don't want to be this way only because I've been hurt. I want to be that way because I look around me and see others severely hurting or put into a disadvantaged position trying to do those very things. All that to either stand out or fit in. They want validation from people so much that it causes them more suffering than necessary to feel fulfilled in life.
I'm not totally against a person wanting validation. Some validation can really help people progress for the better. And it could make them feel the feeling of fulfillment just as my wish would for me. I would simply like to just not worry about either. And it goes along with my personality too!
For instance, if someone tells me I look [Insert an insult that goes along with the topic of fitting in and standing out], I would want to be robotic and indifferent about it. basically, acknowledge what they said but don't have any strong emotions tied to it. And then keep on processing the world in ways I have been programmed to like to. I wouldn't want to pay any attention to them unless they were a severe threat that could harm my existence.I make it work well enough. But ima sociopath so prob not the best judge of emotional character.
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Don’t envy me. I can see myself bring the great reckoning and with a smile killing off most of humanity for the horrors their responsible for. It’s not a happy thing to be hyper sensitive to others emotions to the point you just don’t feel your own anymore.
I work in a plant away from others. At this point I could die there and be happy -.-
Humanity’s just not... worth it. The few million good people do not make up for the number of certifiably stupid people in the world today... stupidit should be a crime punishable by death... take off warning labels and we wouldn’t have gorilla glue girl and catch me out side girl.I grew up super poor, everything o owned came from goodwill. Kids were so cruel, I just got to a point where o said to myself “You cannot afford brand names or tons of clothes but you do have your individualism, let it fly” and I have...
Were you loved? Complimented on your accomplishments? We’re you embarrassed to go to Walmart in a car that screamed when you pulled up?
Spent my childhood embarrassed about being scruffy looking and poor... got used to it and now being an adult I finally learned a real value of a dollar. I take better care of myself and my car don’t screech and my cloths arnt baggy.
I’m still poor. Not financially I make good money... no I lack the people skills I never learned because I was so embarrassed of my then situation. And now I see people and I think... why would I want to know these scumbags.Congrats to you both ! Totally figured it out with the mathematics and never knew you were just a number.
Let me add a few. Never forget from where we came from. This world has made us strong and mindful of other people. In our hearts we know " I am good " remember it's the same thing just somewhere else.
Thank you for your memories " They were mine too " and god bless if there is such a thang?
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- Neither. I’m just being who I am and doing what makes ME happy. I’m starting to learn to just not care what others think of me because at the end of the day you’ll never make everyone happy, there will always be people who are upset or annoyed by something you do or don’t do.
I’m just being me and that’s all I ever want to be.1|00|0Is this still revelant? - Interesting photo you chose.
I fit in very easily. I'm more proud of when I stand out. Which is often a choice, or something I'm aware of but not hiding/stopping something from coming out organically.
Conformity is, by comparison, bland; though it does help with social cohesion and a more harmonious-running society.1|00|0Is this still revelant?
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4158- I don't strife for anything. I don't conform to other people's thoughts or ways so they like me and neither do I do the very opposite of another person for the sake of standing out. If we are aligned with our thoughts and actions, cool. If we aren't, I couldn't care less. I strife for seeking and always seeking the truth and be the ambassador of the truth. And ironically, this often makes me stand out without my intention.1|00|0
- Great question... wow. Two years ago I would have said "fit in" . But thank the God of Abraham and His Son Christ, I aspire to "stand out" from the world. If a person loves the world, or are lovers of self, that person sadly cannot enter the Kingdom God.
We are asked to "come out of her My people, that you be not partakers of her plagues"1|00|0What do you mean "stand out from the world." What do you do that's different than most people?
@Kas19 What I said was "I aspire to stand out from the world" ... Not a single thing... But I am seeking the Lord Christ with a sincere heart and a contrite heart for the first time in my life (even though I claimed to be a follower of the God of the bible for 30 years, when in fact I had no idea Who Christ was... And most important I did not know the character of the Father or His Son..
99.9% of the christian religions of the world DO NOT teach the commands and doctrines of the Christ in scripture... No they are sun worshipers daughters of the whore.. THE ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH... is their mother... see (Revelation 13 and 17)- Show All Show Less
@Kas19 I hope to bring more people to the God of Abraham through His Son Christ... In the United States the people (myself included) have been dumbed down. I don't mean that sarcastically, no but literally. If you would like to find out just how "they" accomplished this horrific act may I suggest reading the book... "THE DELIBERTE DUMBING DOWN OF AMERICA" by: Charlotte Thompson Iserbyt (free pdf)
My point is that no one reads anymore, we have grown accustomed to letting other persons tell us what is, or is not. Take for instance the concept of the place called "hell". The Roman catholic church teaches that this is the place where people that do not love God or follow His commandments will be sent for punishment.. eternal punishment!
This is NOT true and it makes people turn away from a loving creator (this doctrine single-handedly made most of the world become atheists... in my opinion) and here is two proofs why that "hell" does not exist:
(1) The new testament was written in Greek and the Greek meaning of the word "hell" is the GRAVE, which Christ defeated when He rose on the third day.
(2) In the kjv bible book of Genesis...
(Genesis 2; 16-17) And the LORD commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat (17) But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of, for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shall surely DIE.
Did God say that Adam would be sent to a place of torture for eternity? No of course He didn't, that kind of place would make God and His Son tyrants and evil, which They are not.. God is long suffering, He delights in forgiveness, He is abundant in mercies and is FULL OF GRACE..
Forgive me Kas19 if you feel like I am preaching to you or it sounds as if I am better than you (that is not my intention, I am just a poor writer)... I am not better than anyone, I just want to pass on information to you or anybody about the God of Abraham
Anonymous11 dNeither. I'm just me. Trying to fit in or trying to stand out just means you're not being true to yourself because you're too busy worrying about what other people think. I'm way too busy living my life and doing my thing to be concerned about where I fall on any kind of spectrum.1|10|0- I dint strive nor aspire to be anything more than myself, to do differently would be a full time job, yesbi have goals and there's always changing for the better , life in general ws have to strive for, some need aspirations in order to strive as well.2|00|0
- I pretty much stand out, I try to be as content as possible and just keep to myself especially nowadays on how messed up this world is today with social media and how people treat each other , I remember my life before all this social media bullshit and life was much better then , people nowadays are out of control and I feel lost so to be happy I just mainly keep to myself and stay out of the gossip and drama as much as possible1|00|0
- i dont really care everyone sees me from their level of perception, i don't want to live life convincing people i'm something other than just myself. whether im normal or not is up to the individual's judgement2|00|0
- I just try to be myself. It just so happens that I dont fit in and definitely stand out lol. Whether in a good way or bad way i dont know. People like me for some strange reason so there's that *shrug1|00|0
- I aspire to be my own person. To not fit in but also not stand out. I'm in the middle, wanting to be left alone but have as many friends as possible. I want to be weird and funny for everyone, but I have no one to share myself with.1|00|0
- Neither, I do what I can to be the best version of me that I can possibly be despite what others think. Standing out or fitting in don’t really matter.1|00|0
- My mind and heart aspire to stand out, my insecurities and anxiety push me to fit in xD so constant battle between them.1|10|0
- No matter how much I try to fit it
I end up being out
I just don't fit among people
I am different from them and now it's doesn't really matter to me
So perceive to stand out, that's essier2|00|0 - Honestly, I just do whatever I want for the most part. If its 'normal' cool. If its 'weird' cool. Appearance-wise I try to blend in though.1|00|0
- All my life I’ve never felt like I fit in anywhere nor try to stand out, at the end of the day, I just want to be myself in a graceful way.1|00|0
- Neither, i just be going with the flow of what i want to do depending on the situation. If i blend in or stick out, oh well1|00|0
- I'm gonna be me.
People don't like me, that's on them, cuz I'm to busy enjoying my life to care if i fit in.1|00|0 - I'd love to fit in somewhere but I just live. As I don't seem to fit in or stand out in a good way. It's annoying1|00|0
- I'm a contrarian to a fault. 😅😅😅😅
I have to check myself frequently to make sure I hold an opinion because it's the most reasonable and not because it's contrary to what's popular.1|00|0 - I aspire to think for myself and avoid being a sheep. But I don’t try to stand out cuz I wouldn’t want the attention.1|00|0
- Stand out one way or another. Synonymous to "Lead, Never Follow" that I learned from a car commercial.1|00|0
- Hahaha, i love this question.
stand out of course (and be alone as a side effect). Why follow the mass? Why not lead by example? The rewards will be there.1|00|0 - I don't try either. I feel like people who even think like that are trying too hard or even have an ego. I don't even fucking think about this shit. To answer your questions though I stand out.2|00|0
- I'd like to fit in but I never do. So I guess I stand out, but not really by choice.2|00|0
- I'm just myself and let the cards fall where they may2|00|0
- Neither I aspire to do my own thing regardless of either option. If I for in ok if not also OK.1|00|0
- Always tried to be different. Knowing what I know today I wish I fit in more.1|00|0
- Neither. I just do what I do & however people see me is their business. I couldn't care less.1|00|0
- I try to live my truth, don't really care if that makes me an outcast or another sheep in the flock.1|00|0
- I like to walk to the beat of my own drum. I am a non conformist, I do and say what feels right to me. If someone gets butt hurt so be it.1|00|0
- I have never fit into the normal. I definitely don't want to stand out in a crowd though.0|00|0
- Like anyone in this industry, I stand out dressed in black and slathered in silver and gold1|00|0
- I do my own thing. If I stand out, fine, if I don't well, that's okay too.1|00|0
- I had never tried to fit in anywhere. That means I've stood out in most of the place.1|00|0
- I'm just me, a strange dude, there aren't many of us, but don't worry, you will never be.1|00|0
- I try to avoid being the same as the masses. I have different goals than them.1|00|0
- I don’t strive to do any of those, But I tend to stand out most the time.1|00|0
- I only strive and aspire to be True to Myself. If I fit in, fine. If I don’t fit in, fine. If I stand out, fine. If I don’t stand out, fine.1|00|0
- I rather stand out and have people come to me because I'm interesting. Trying to fit in may sometimes come off as being fake or try hard.1|10|0
- Haha, neither. Both of those are still letting the group idea define you.
I be myself, and that is enough1|00|0 - No one who was great fitted it. In order to redefine the world for the bettee you must stand out. If you fit in then you cannot become great. However this is not to say that people who stand out are great as that statement is false.1|00|0
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But i will settle for fitting in for a bit1|00|0 - Neither. I just want to be myself, I care about the others in that regard1|00|0
- Don’t really give a shit either way, just do my thing1|00|0
- I just do me and a side consequence of that has been that I stand out. I'm fine with it.1|00|0
- Stand out. I don’t strive for it. I just live my life and be myself. If I did standout though, it makes me happy ngl.1|00|0
- I've always stood out in a bad way so I'd rather fit in.1|00|0
- I strive to stay under the radar and just have a nice, content life.1|00|0
- I stand tf outttt especially with the types of outfits that i wear1|00|0
- Anonymous12 dI just try to be me but I’d rather blend in than stand out. Most attention is negative and I’ve been hurt enough by enough people that I know I don’t want that anymore1|00|0
- I could never fit in I am quite different in every group1|00|0
- Neither but for some reasons I'm always standing out.1|00|0
- I strive to fit in at work. I don't really try to be quirky it weird or whatever, I just do me1|00|0
- It's a generation old people laugh at young people. Young people observe old people.
To be trendy? Is simple popularity1|00|0 - I strive to keep censorship at a minimum, settle in at my job, and stand out as a fucked up individual that remains to be responsible when necessary!1|00|0
- I like being myself. Conformity is door people that are afraid2|00|0
- For me little of both to be accepted by like minded people but also be my own person.1|00|0
- That really depends on the situation. In a bank robbery, as a customer, I want to blend in. As a rock star I want to stand out.1|00|0
- Never I domy own things people get confused and dislike me i keep doing my own thing and will never change1|00|0
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