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But that you survived shoes true strength!
@Brainsbeforebeauty Yeah I did make it and things are better now than they were before
Glad to hear it
@Brainsbeforebeauty Thank you :)
Love is always a gamble
Yeah. It's been my experience rhough that it's a losing proposition.
Least you recognize and admit it
I eventually became aware of what was going on inside me. I came to see that it was based on childhood experiences. It took me a while to see it. It's like the guy who keeps getting beat up in bars and can't understand it. He thinks he is a victim. I was never physically violent, but I did blow up a couple of friendships when I was young. Life is about learning.
Aww sorry to hear that
And here is a bit of an answer to another question I did comment before "Why are people stubborn?"---- I thought of this question in Spanish, because it uses two closely related terms, which is terco (stubborn) and necio (foolish)And the first, stubborn usually refers to a very strong will and determined person, so as the better aspect of it, you get a person that refuses to change or to stop against adversity and that sometimes can be a good thing, but it is also the other side, they can be really hard to change their minds or attitudes even if they know better and they should change it.And then you have the foolish person who just lacks "common sense" or a better judgment of things, so they end up looking quite stubborn, to the point that it just seems ridiculous and this often ends on them being on the wrong. ----Being way younger back then, I have a less perspective, and I not a "more real" sense of what time is or can be, as someone mentioned above in the comments,. I lost some time by not addressing certain things. I think it was mostly due to the fact that it would only affect me and not precisely to others, if it had involved others directly it would go different, I want to think. I could be harsh on myself or neglect myself, I was stubborn then with myself, and perhaps pride was involved among with all the other things going on,, anywho... I was young.Forged in fire, I like to say.
And why not 3? hmpf!
Lololol 👍👍👍 there better 🙄LOL
I decided not to be rude and interrupt your other conversation any further. Do you ever travel outside the midwest? For instance, I have family in Vegas, so I go there a lot.
Not really. I have relatives in Arizona and A grandma and two friends that live in North Carolina but I haven't traveled in a long time
NC is only a couple hours away from me. But I suppose it's not really realistic, anyway. I at least get to talk to you and look at your pretty picture! If I were to move, it would be to Vegas because of family. I cannot move, because of family. I am sure you are in a similar boat.
Yeah my kids and grandson here
And I agree that long distance is a nightmare, the odds make it almost and impossibility and very complicated. I don't agree with on-line necessarily being a problem. Especially since we've been locked up against our will for the better part of a year. I have had some success online dating, meaning I actually got dates and they weren't ugly or different from their presentation and we got along just fine. There wasn't any real connection, but the ladies were decent people so far as I could tell in real life. They were fakes or psychos. I do think it would be better if it was more regionally centered. Sure I can connect nationwide but it's not practical and not that I have many stakes left, but the ones I do have are grounding. Have you ever tried it? And is that why you have a bad opinion of it? Online dating, I mean.
No because it wouldn't feel real to me... I want someone I can be with, spend in person time with, video time means nothing to me. I think that would make me more lonely not less
No, no. I meant have you tried online dating in terms of meeting someone online, but then meeting them in real life? Have you ever done that?And I agree video only makes you more lonely, I am not down with that either.
No don't do dating apps They may work for some but it's not my thing
Yeah, I quit them because it seemed very weird to me. Then someone hacked my account and the company did nothing! I was pissed. So I bowed out and never looked back.
See exactly! And that post about the morning wood? Look at the first user that replied (the vccvcvcv), and then go to his profile, that account was opened and deactivated today 🤔🤔
LOL! I am no defender of online dating, but it also wasn't a horror story either. Like I said I did meet some people. We didn't click, but it wasn't awful. The behavior of the companies leaves something to be desired. But believe it or not, I was talking to a counselor a while back who told me that he has seen a lot of success in his practice.My problem with it, is that its very inorganic. It's just not the normal way one meets people. But, I realized there is a strong desire within people to be with each other. And society has been slowly structuring itself in a way where human contact, natural normal l contact is severely reduced. If it wasn't people wouldn't do it. I do think there was a brief 'golden age' for it though, when there were more honest people on there looking for each other. And for a certain amount of people, it has worked fabulously. But trolls, Bots, and ne'er do wells, got involved and hollowed out a lot of spaces. I am not suggesting you do it. I am just saying it has some good points too. A lot of bad, but some good. And a lot of the bad is fixable, but I don't see anybody stepping up to the plate to fix the spaces, the money is too good to keep it as is.
Yeah I hear that!
I Know how you feel
Especially when I made things about me. When I shoukd of focussed on Jesus more.
Yea... we are working on that. 😂
@JoyGirl q w q you're so good for me...
@JoyGirl omg you all get a room 🤣🤣
Good idea. 👀🥴
@JoyGirl hey young lady, that was sarcasm not advice, 👁️👁️ lolol
@JoyGirl no butt either 🤣🤣🤣
We will be good. 🥺🥺🥺
@JoyGirl huh yeah right 😂
@Brainsbeforebeauty you can belive us... Q - Q we are good noodles...
Yes, Mum. We are. 🥺🥺🥺
I have to admit I've gotten that way.
Real truth there
Right! Pride can be both a good thing and a bad thing sometimes
At first glance, you and @Brainsbeforebeauty looks similar
What I'd tell you bout hmmming me 🧐
You better be 😂🤗