Do Some People Not Realize It's Not Always The "WHAT" You Do, But "HOW" You Do It?

[Lliam]

Yup. Like it's good for a guy to introduce himself to a woman. But it's not good to do it by saying, "I noticed your tits. Damn!"

Let me think of some other examples.

Kissing is wonderful, but some people don't know "how" to do it well.
Laughing is great, unless you snort and bray like a donkey.
Talking is good unless you have a mouth full of food.
It's good to grill steak, but not until it is dried out and tough as shoe leather.
It's good to mop the floor, but not with a combination of bleach and ammonia.
Women look great with a certain amount of makeup, but if they look like clowns, they overdid it.

[MrWolf]

It's not what or how but WHY you doit? Is it for fame or gain or personal growth and that question should be only asked directly to ourselves from ourselves!

Nobody cares what, why or how! Nor we care about what people think.

Yet when i get in the mornings i do ask myself why i keep on doing it! And i answer myself because I've chosen this path.

[PaynefulPleasures]

When you try you're hopeful
When you do you succeed
Aww hell say it then do it who cares if you screw up at 1st you don't succeed try, try again. I still get lost in my house, trip in air, the list goes on. The point is I'm a sayer doer & I know the difference. By the way I confuse easily what was the question 🤔🙃😂

[Jaylaa2000]

Exactly like bragging about being rich but u betrayed and ruined so many friends and people's lives to get there.
Big deal.
I'm looking at the rich person that got there with good deeds and helped others on their way as inspiration

[OlderAndWiser]

Democrats!

[ohshee]

I think that is so beautiful and so beautiful when I do stuff it has nothing to do with I'm doing it or why I'm doing it is it has something to do with the quality and the emotion when I get done with it but then I just smile and move on to the next one and I agree with you 100%

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I agree with you, I made Lasagna for Easter my Cousin loved it
but as I was talking to her, I said we should have omitted the Ricotta Cheese
and just work with more using Mozarella, the meat sauce and meatballs was
a complete gem also I see a large deep pot I should buy to use for boiling
pasta noodles but didn't get it was at our Family Dollar, I will have that pot
by next week hahaha LMAO I screwed up with it but we ate it for 2 days LOL

[Wiredone]

That is so true. It applies to me every day. I'm an electrician. When I go to do a job I have the customers needs in mind. I could just go in and do the job quick and easy for me and get paid. Instead I always plan for the future. It might take me longer and it's more work but it will be easier for the next guy and it saves the customer money in the long run.

[CrazyGirl2]

I agree 100% I would also add that one’s motivation for doing something is equally if not more important than the “what” and “how”.
I would also suggest that this also applies to speech. That it’s not WHAT someone says, but HOW they say it that communicates the most to me. (However, no matter what they say to me, if they happen to have the “Dreamworks Face” while they say it, I’m pretty sure that they are planning to kill me!) 😁

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Exactly

Just like with getting fat, it's not WHAT you're eating, it's HOW MUCH OF IT, you're eating

You can't sit there and eat a gallon of ice cream, to eat your feelings, not work out, and not expect to get fat.. even the people with high metabolism, will eventually start to gain weight, trust me

[Floppy2112]

No, what you do is important. If you burn down someone's house, does it matter if you did it with panache? If you spend all of someone's money, does it matter if you did it in style?
What you do matters more than how you do it. This is just an old trope. If you are doing evil, 'how' doesn't matter so much. And we live in a world of evil.

[TonyMetal___86]

The wisdom of miss brains muffins is covering the planet 😄
When i see miss brain's photo, i see a sweet face but when i look at it which means the way i look at it, i see a SPONGY FOREHEAD waiting to be bitten 😬😂

[weysally]

I would prefer to say its always the how you do it not the what you do
take baking a cake, every one can bake a cake of sorts, but to get it right its how you did it that makes it lovely

[Kas19]

It's how you do it, and your intentions. Intent always matters.

[exitseven]

Yes, I probably am considered a blunt object. I usually get the job done but often it's not pretty.

[DrunkenMaster]

You should like my ex 😒. " This is NOT HOW you clean the house " . *rolls eyes*

Jokes

[Unit1]

It won't matter. If the money is there, then it'll all be resolved.

[Massageman]

Seems as though some of them are disappearing lately.

[captain_voidwalker]

Both are wrong. It's not what you do or how you do it, but the results of what you did that matter most

[Jjpayne]

It is an interesting point 🤔 people see what you do and it shows them who you are

[cheapshotbob]

some do but if its not the way they want it they make up some excuse to make a "bad" idea and try going others ways that will make the problem worse.

[Redred56]

Very true here, Catch more bees with honey, than vinegar

[TheAfrikan]

Indeed nice one dear and am lovin the says attached on to.

[SpaceGalaxy]

very well-said. Gave your question thumbs up! totally agree!

[Alexalex92]

Good one. Here in Greece we also say you don't need effort, you need the (right) way to do it.

[BUNroaster]

Yes I see most people are taught a certain way about it and its hard to the idea through to them

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I am the best at what I do, but what I do isn't very nice 😂

[OddBeMe]

Ehh... true but so many people aren't thinking of lucrative skills. Or they want menial work to pay the family bills.

[pizzalovershouse]

Yah do ut right the 1st time that way you dont have to do it again

[Satish2607]

Well people can say anything and you should do the thing you like.

[douride2]

I was taught to always do the best you can.

[JosyJosy]

"I achieved this... but at what cost?"

[COMMODOREII]

How do "you" do. 😂😂Lmao

[ThePolishKnight37]

Actions usually speak louder than words.

[888theGreat]

Like sex! You can do it with respect or not.

[MrCreep]

Oh yeah that's so true rope is a good example 😂

[hello_kitty_man]

Touche.

[karaspara]

So so true

[Just_call_me_Levi]

This is true.

[Slim57]

Yep..

[abhi00007]

Yes its right