On the days that I she is off I stay up a good part of the day if not all of the day. To spend time with her. That is aok with me I prefer it.
What is bothering me is the fact that on nights that I work, she seems to have the ability to stay up till 2 or 3 in the morning. Then on nights that I am off...boom out before 12.(she doesn't get off til 8 most days) This bothers me because I don't understand it. not to mention what little sex we had before has dropped off even more. Before we would make love maybe once every two weeks. now I think once a month :( I mean we are 22 and 19 we are young wtf is once a month, sh*t? I have tried to talk to her about it but it gets no where. She says it's because we don't use condums as much anymore. So I started using them again and nothing seemed to change. I don't know what the f*** I am doing wrong.
She says she isn't cheating and nothing else that she does makes me think that she is, she stills acts goofey with me like she always has when she is awake. Still does nice things for me. But I am going crazy. I mean to be serious I'm kinda worried to marry her. If I'm only getting it once a month now, once we get married I might as well be a holy man!
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i wouldn't be able to be in a relationship that only featured sex once a month. have you asked her how she's feeling about sex? does she just not feel sexy? reminding her that you care about her feelings and are concerned might help. how often do you go down on her? maybe try worshiping her sexually, lead by example. maybe try to make her feel wanted, a flower or 2, a pair of sexy panties, a racy text, make her breakfast? has she had a lifestyle change? new medications? maybe she just can't sleep when you're not in the bed.